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I think there is a presumption that people are coming here for answers, which maybe makes an assumption that they are wanting to learn, and perhaps the senior posters felt an obligation to attempt to provide perspective or information?I did not ask you to be my teacher: I did not get a choice. But you have done your best with me. I am not aware of attacking anyone, but speaking with authority, and asking legitimate questions, which is what the Forum is supposed to be about.
If you were not coming to learn, and not to convert, then that leaves the option that you are using the forum as a place to work out your inner debate. There is nothing wrong with that either, except that your style of debate is confrontational, and brought some unwanted heat on yourself.
Oh gosh, what is this about ‘humbly receiving teachings’? My whole life I have been taught to believe nothing of what I hear, and only half of what I see.
What if the time has come for a new way?
Carol Coombe;2092575:
I agree that it is incumbent upon learners to examine a proposition. However, in many of your posts, you start out by saying “I don’t believe…” If you start out sounding like you have your mind made up, then where is the examination? I don’t think there is a better way to avoid putting people on the defensive than humility, meekness, and acceptance. A soft answer turns away wrath. And I don’ t mean by saying that you cannot be authoritive on a subject, or firm. Jesus did not compromise His authority in his meekness and humbleness of heart.I think it is incumbent upon learners or listeners or questers to examine the proposition to determine whether or not it is correct… Do you agree? And what is this humble jazz please?
So if you do not want to feel defensive, what would you like me to do, other than being humble, gracious and accepting?
Truthfully? No, it sounded like rampant madness from reading your posts. Also I am impregnated by an HIV training I had here, which basically described the childbearing (sexually active?) part of the population to be decimated by disease, children orphaned, only grandparents and little kids. What happened to chastity?Did you understand that many people wish to be chaste, and that this was a long and strong tradition in many African communities.
No, at least, if the behavior of the natives is as you describe, it certainly seems like there is much more missionary work to be done. It sounds as if a lot of these people do not know who Jesus is, much less grasp that treating others badly is the same as desecrating God. ARe you saying that the people that belong to the Churches are not part of the problem? Only heathen?Do you understand that we are well past the missionary stage here: our Churches look just like yours, and ours has a congregation of about 2000, with another being built to hold 2000 by 2010.
I have a lot of postings to get to, but I do understand that women are taken advantage of and placed at risk for infection, as are children, and some men. It is not their fault. But don’t you think the person drinking the beer has any responsibility in their fate?But a couple of beers often makes for confusion - and then the condom must come into play. We do not always choose our fate - especially if we are women (see other postings on this).
It seems to me that all these things can happen, and do not need the Church to interfere, or to promulgate Her teachings upon the recipients. Am I wrong about that? these are public health and social problems that can be addressed on that level. If you need a spiritual solution,then the church can become involved. Why conflate the two?Can you contemplate that in Zambia, only 10 per cent of the population is in employment, and that 70 per cent of people live on less than one US dollar per day? Job training would not help many - but better clinic training, health visits to schools, more action by churches and other nongovernment organisations on counselling and testing would all help. If you want information on this, write me a private message, and I will send you what you want to know, or direct you to a source that can help to keep you informed.