I do not think you are correct when you say that the person baptizing must share the intent of the Church.
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Here is what I find in the Catechism (1829) * The fruits of charity are joy, peace, and mercy; charity demands beneficience and fraternal correction: it is benevolence; it fosters reciprocity and remains disinterested and generous; it is friendship and communion.*"
Fraternal correction does not involve baiting people or insulting them or accusing them of thinking that they are better than the Church.
Jesus says to take the plank out of our own eye and then we’ll be able to see clearly to take the speck out of someone else’s eye. He also said we are to be wise as serpents and gentle as doves. There is a balance. Sometimes correction is appropriate, and other times, holding our tongues is more appropriate.
And then there’s always that passage: I Timothy 5: 1 and 2.
And right before it: I Timothy 4: 12. This is good verse for any young person. “Let no one despise your youth, but set the believers an example in speech and conduct, in love, in faith, and in purity.”
Are you talking about the Compendium or the full Catechism? In any event you’re actually incorrect. But in all charity I’ll correct you, and I’ll even refer you to an article with the relevant Canon, see
here.
" What we can find in Canon 849 is the explicit reference of the juridical elements to the requirements for a valid baptism:** a washing with water **accompanied by
the proper verbal formula. Two other requirements for validity not mentioned directly in Canon 849 are
the proper intention of the baptizing minister and, in the baptism of an adult, the proper intention of the one being baptized. It appears that the canon simply takes the presence of both of these intentions for granted. However, these two other elements are mentioned in Canon 869 §2:"
As you’ll see the intention of the person baptising is relevant. In addition even if a formula is used which invokes the Trinity it is not always considered valid if the correct names are not used or if the group’s understanding of the Trinity is too different from the Catholic, for the first case see the case from Australia where ‘Creator, Redeemer and Sanctifier’ was recently ruled to be invalid.
Actually I think the term Protestant is not confined to the US, the term refers to all Protestants, unless of course you only take exception when people refer to practices as Protestant when they come from the U.S…
I don’t see what’s mean spirited about it. If at least some of their beliefs are not heretical (from a Catholic perspective) then either the Church has it wrong or they’re Catholic. But you said “I do NOT consider Protestants “heretics””, so if that is the case then are they actually Catholics or is the Catholic Church wrong? As far as I’m concerned the Catholic Church does not have it wrong, and Protestants because of the faith they profess are most certainly not Catholic. I’m guessing you share that view, so you must also accept that Protestant teachings are in some cases and on some levels heretical. You might not like it, and you might not like calling a spade a spade but it is the case.
Would the Bible do? St Paul stood up to St Peter when he had it wrong. Alternatively, I believe in one of the letters of St Paul, there is an instruction that if they see one of their brothers doing something wrong they’re to speak with them about it, if they do not change then they are to get a group together and they are to confront them over it, or words to that effect. If we are accept that Protestants, in many cases have a valid Baptism which many of the main groups do then they come under that definition as far as I understand it.
And I think for the most part I manage to avoid it. I study Maths, to me it makes far more sense to bring someone to an understanding of a point by showing them a proof, and it’s even better if they can understand each step. One of the key methods of proof is by contradiction. We take a statement say ‘X says the Catholic Church will fall’ and then reduce it until we get a contradiction, in this case perhaps ‘But Jesus said that the Gates of Hell would not prevail against the Church, hence either Jesus told a lie, the Catholic Church is not the True Church of Christ or X is wrong’, ‘Jesus wouldn’t lie and the Catholic Church is accepted by both X and I as the true Church, hence, by contradiction, X is wrong’. Others may see that as baiting, but I think it is as legitimate a method of making a point.
True, but when it comes to fundamental truths it is most often appropriate to correct them. If an old lady were sitting in a pew and for whatever reason was getting the words of the Hail Mary wrong then it probably wouldn’t merit correction, but if someone were persisting in sin, heresy etc and there was some possibility of getting through to them that it is wrong then it is worth the effort.
Yet we also have the example of the Saints, many of whom had to take and stand to argue a point on something. Most of the time it’s not recorded whether the people they spoke to initially thought them lacking in love, faith, charity, although there’s a fair chance at least a few did. I’m sure at times to other people they may have appeared to fail in their conduct, perhaps by ignoring the pleas of their family to not risk their lives, there’s certainly a few cases in the Martyrology where we hear about mothers who tried to persuade their child to take an easier way out than standing their ground on something.