I know a lot has been said to this point but I thought I would return to the OP.
There is a great deal of what I would call “hard sell” on CAF, where someone expects a Protestant to convert either by the end of the thread, the post or within four hours. We pick up on a lot of “now why don’t you become Catholic now” vibes, and frankly I for one get tired of it. If you go to the car dealer to look at all the new neat cars and the salesman follows you around with a sales contract and continually asks you to close, pretty soon you go elsewhere.
I find there are a lot of well educated and thoughtful Catholics here. There is a lot I appreciate, perhaps even love, about the Catholic Church and I enjoy a good discussion. At the same time I really hate argument and debate, a recent realization. I would rather enjoy a good cup of coffee with someone and discuss something quietly than have a boxing match. Perhaps that is a gender thing. I love PRMerger’s approach of inviting someone to their backyard porch for a BBQ. I would rather be friends than be BBQ’d.
BUT there are lot of pushy types here, and if I post here, I am always braced for an ugly post that barely passes the forum rules in terms of politeness or challenges my loyalty to Christ or something that you would NEVER say in polite conversation. I have seen way too many. I recognize this is an apologetics ministry of the Catholic Church and I accept that; that is not a license or excuse to drive people away with what are offensive threads against someone’s deeply held and cherished beliefs or otherwise be rude for the sake of dragging, triumphantly, someone’s bruised and battered soul across the Tiber.
People here need to consider that too much of a hard sell WILL drive people away. Threads that start out with something like “Protestants, What the ---- is Wrong With You?” don’t help. Neither does the sort of triumphalism that is so often encountered that assumes from the getgo that Catholics are right and stupid Protestants just need to wake up.
It really is insulting to assume that Protestants cannot debate knowledgeable Catholics. That sort of attitude is an example of why a lot of people don’t stick around here. It’s no fun to hear too much of that.