Not enough Penance?

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Have you ever felt like not enough Penance was assigned after a Confession?

Through sin we kill our soul, lose grace, and drive the nails into the wood of the cross. After Reconciliation we are absolved of our sin and given Penance - but sometimes it feels like the “punishment doesn’t fit the crime”. What, if anything, do you do in addition to your assigned Penance?
 
Yes, sometimes, but like Monicad said, how much is really enough?

What I do is offer up my sufferings whenever I think of it in reparation for my sins, for sins of others or for whatever Jesus deems necessary at the moment.
 
Have you ever felt like not enough Penance was assigned after a Confession?

Through sin we kill our soul, lose grace, and drive the nails into the wood of the cross. After Reconciliation we are absolved of our sin and given Penance - but sometimes it feels like the “punishment doesn’t fit the crime”. What, if anything, do you do in addition to your assigned Penance?
Do your penance as assigned and carry on with your normal prayer routine. The priest is smarter than you.
 
Penance is a symbol of our atonement. The amount does not matter.
 
That’s why I always ask for advice about avoiding the near occasion of sin, or cultivating the opposite virtue, before or after penance is assigned. I like the idea of using Reconciliation to try to grow beyond this stuff. I’ve gotten some pretty useful advice through the years, things I probably wouldn’t have thought about on my own.

And that’s why I have a regular confessor.
 
Penance is not a punishment. My confessor, when assigning a penance, always asks me to do the penance in thanksgiving for God’s mercy. The absolute worst sin I ever confessed he assignedme ONE Our Father. When I questioned him on it he said I punished myself enough over it, now was a time for thanksgiving. It took me over a 1/2 hour to say that one prayer.
 
HWhat, if anything, do you do in addition to your assigned Penance?
nothing the purpose of penance has nothing to do with punishment to fit the crime, that idea is from Gilbert and Sullivan, not Catholic teaching. The purpose of penance is to facilitate my change and conversion and the first step to that is humility needed to approach confession in the first place, and obedience to the spiritual direction of the priest. So I do the penance assigned, I don’t make up my own rules.
 
After confessing the worst group of sins I’ve ever confessed, I received one of the lightest penances I’ve ever received. I see that as a sign of God’s mersy on me. I went into that particular Confession with the fear that I would be denied absolution, but I did the best I could to put my trust in the mersy of Jesus Christ. I laid those sins on the table, and all my fears were swept away. I went to Adoration afterwards, and I praised God for his mersy on me.
 
Yeah, my priest normally doesn’t give much for penance.

Last time it was one Hail Mary and it was a mortal sin I confessed…

But like others have said, penance isn’t “punishment” and no amount of prayer is enough to atone for our sin, nor to praise God enough.
 
… I could spend the rest of my life on my knees in prayer 24 hours a day and it would not be enough to deserve God’s mercy!
…and for this reason we are so fortunate that God loves us enough to send his only Son to die for our sins. None of us could atone for our sins - only Christ could, and thankfully He did!

Our penance shows sorrow for our sins, helps’s overcome our faults and reconciles us with the Church and those whom we have hurt through our sin. Yes, the absolution of the sins we confess is complete in reconciliation - it is just hard for mortal minds to comprehend the magnitude of what this sacrament has given to us!
 
Have you ever felt like not enough Penance was assigned after a Confession?

Through sin we kill our soul, lose grace, and drive the nails into the wood of the cross. After Reconciliation we are absolved of our sin and given Penance - but sometimes it feels like the “punishment doesn’t fit the crime”. What, if anything, do you do in addition to your assigned Penance?
It is the priest alone, and not you, who decides on the appropriate penance. You cannot question it. Be humble and obey.
 
It is the priest alone, and not you, who decides on the appropriate penance. You cannot question it. Be humble and obey.
I understand and I do. I was relaying a feeling I felt after confession.
 
In these times far less penance is given than is traditional and proportionate to the sins. It is almost in fact, as if a penance due justice did not exist.

This lack of penance is a relatively recent phenomenon.

The history of penance in the Church, shows that there is a set amount of penance due for sins, that either must be performed in this life – or, in a far more severe fashion in the next.

In one way or another it must be either performed or forgiven by God.

The priest does not assign all the penance due a sin. The less he assigns the more you owe on your own. In fact the more he assigns the better, what he assigns is worth more than what you do on your own equivalently of your own volition.

St. Frances tells us that for each forgiven mortal sin, there is a term of seven years in Purgatory to undergo. This is the average penalty in the next life. And then if you consider venial sins… it adds up… to a long time.

On this earth, the priest gives a partial penance, we are expected to make up the rest on our own, here or there.

Here are the penances St. Charles Borromeo gave as guidelines for his priests:

Penitents who have taken part in any pagan superstitions should do penance for two years.

Penitents who have consulted magicians are obliged to endure a penance of five years.

Penitents who eat meat during Lent, without good cause, should not be permitted to receive Holy Communion at Easter.

Children who curse their parents should be given a penance of bread and water for forty days.

Depending upon the circumstances adultery is a sin requiring penance for five, seven, or even ten years.



The Irish penitentials will prescribe one hundred blows with a scourge, vigils, black fasts, etc.

Over and over again.

That is a little bit closer towards that penance truly due. So if you feel you’re not getting enough penance assigned. . .

Read some penitentials and begin. And ask your priest for more.

Penance is both key towards lessening time in purgatory, and going to Heaven at all.
 
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