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alice24
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I thank you all for the response, this is much to think for me. I will try to find professional help again, I hope there will be an option with more waiting time. I talked to my sister again, told her that I try to understand why she told me those things, but that I was really hurt because of her behaviour. Long story short: there was no understanding. She felt I was distanced, and felt it was serious, and spoke a little more gentle with me - but she said it was my fault because I “use my no to her in vitro plans as a weapon against her”. Well, beside the fact that ovum donation is illegal here, I feel she has absolutely no idea about the healthy borders of other people, regarding their emotional or physical health. I see it is not out of stupidity or the will to hurt me, but I still need to help myself.
Regarding the wedding, we (fiancé and me) had the idea to split the civil wedding and the ceremony. The feast after the ceremony will be with all the family and friends, with my sister, too. There will be to much people for personal stress between her and my mother or me, I hope.
The civil wedding will be only for us and a hand full of the closest friends. Maybe there will be a little space for us to come down without anxiety.
Regarding the wedding, we (fiancé and me) had the idea to split the civil wedding and the ceremony. The feast after the ceremony will be with all the family and friends, with my sister, too. There will be to much people for personal stress between her and my mother or me, I hope.
The civil wedding will be only for us and a hand full of the closest friends. Maybe there will be a little space for us to come down without anxiety.