Brother, are you talking about me?
Kidding aside, I will just present my view of the issue, and let people run with it.
Communion in the hand does not bother me per se, if the manner of reception remained the traditional way (veiled hands, pre-cleansing of the hands, both hands direct to mouth, etc.) However, this is NOT the way most parishes practice it, and I cannot speak for the parish the other poster mentions, but here in Los Angeles, based on the slipshod, irreverant and fast food manner the Holy Eucharist is bantered about the Sanctuary, I would have banned CITH yesterday. Based on experience as an altar server, Sacristan, wedding coordinator, EMHC, lector, and other capacities at 3 parishes, I can state with confidence the reverent, bowing, and exaulted manner of receiving described before is NOT, I repeat, NOT the way most people are receiving here. I was with SSPX at one time, and I can say with confidence I never saw the type of behaviour toward the Holy Eucharist in their chapels displayed in OF parishes. COTT kneeling seems to induce greater reverence, for whatever reason, and abuses must be acknowledged as being very rare in this form. I could not even think of an example of a COTT abuse.
Good catechesis is great, but the regulations and suppressions of the past were the result of irreverence and poor catechesis. No miraculous change occured in catechesis post-1970, so I can assure you that this was probably not the reason CITH was permitted, whatever the reason. One does not permit a practice and then attempt to fix while it still occurs. This is like fixing an automobile while it is driving! If corrections need be made, the practice needs to stop, be reevaluated, and then offered again after better catechesis.
As I learned in psychology 101, the fact that one party in a relationship thinks there is a problem
means there is a problem, whether all acknowledge it or not. The fact that so many seem concerned about CITH should at least indicate a need for reflexion on the issue, and perhaps suspension until a future date. CITH should come after better catechesis and not vice versa.
Personally, I like how my parish does it. We receive, kneeling, on the tongue and by intinction, with one priest holding the ciborium and the other priest dipping the Host in the chalice and placing it on the communicants tongue. Perhaps CITH would be an edifying practice if its signifigance was properly evaluated. However, the fact it has not been practiced in the West for over 1000 years should be at least one argument for being against so casually permitting it. Yes, it is nice to give a reverential ackowledgment to the East, but they have had it in their tradition for the last 1000+ years, and so they already understand and appreciate it’s signifigance. The West needs a time out, and I think it should be sooner, rather than later. I do not think it is unreasonable to want to reflect on whether the Holy Eucharist is receiving It’s proper due, and I do see why anyone would object to pausing the practice to give the Body of Christ in the West a moment of reflection and understanding. Could just be me.