You may have liked him before you knew he was married, but now you know, you must stop.
Okay, say you ever got serious in the future with this man. If he went with you, while he is still legally married and has 2 children, what’s to say he wouldn’t do that to you one day if you married him?
If he can do it once with you, he’s more likely to do it with someone else, as well
A LOT of men say, “I’m married…but I’m going to get a divorce” so women will date them. Typically, what happens is that the woman who dates them becomes “the other woman”, and he just uses her. Due to the children, he will often NOT want to leave his wife, is just looking for a sexual relationship.
You will probably mean nothing to him, be possibly just another conquest. Had you also considered WHY he may be divorcing? What if it’s because he’s unfaithful?
You are certainly not helping this couple stay together. Do you want to tear a family apart? How would you feel if he were your husband and those were your kids?
People go on and on like this…year after year…“I’ll leave my wife in…6 months, baby. I’ll divorce in 1 year, honey. Next year, honey.”
In the meantime, you’re sharing a man between the 2 of you!
Please don’t be the “other woman”. I know things are difficult with men, but take what’s available. Avoid him, now, so you don’t fall into further temptation. Respect him, yourself, his wife, and the children.
Recall what Christ said that if we even look at someone with lust, it’s the same as commiting adultery. Do you want to be guilty of adultery?
