“Stop being so scared of God!”
“Ep”, I’m assuming, that you mean… “God isn’t a big bad meanie, out to flatten us with a thunder bolt”.

And I agree with you! We must always, always remember that God loves us. He loves us so dearly, that He became one of us… and died for US.
That said… there is another type of fear, that is definitely a good thing (which I’m sure you already know). That would be “Fear of the Lord”. Which is one of the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit.
This “Holy Fear” challenges us, impels us and prods us to keep striving for holiness in our own lives. It’s different from “being scared of God”. The Catechism of the Catholic Church says this:
"The message of the Last Judgment calls men to conversion while God is still giving them “acceptable time, … the day of salvation.” It inspires a holy fear of God and commits them to the justice of the Kingdom of God. It proclaims the “blessed hope” of the Lord’s return, when He will come “to be glorified in His saints, and to be marvelled at in all who have believe.” (CCC 1041)
I once heard Mother Angelica talking about this. She looked at the camera… and said “Am I scaring you? GOOD. I want to scare you, because I love you. And more than that… GOD loves you and wants you to be saved.”
Mother has a way of getting the point across.
