Well, obviously this response is totally just my opinion, based on my own experience. For me, I don’t usually go around all day at specific times/events and think, “Oh, that’s God’s presence in my life!” That can happen to me sometimes, but it’s probably not very often. More often than not, it is more when I look back on my life, whether it’s just the past day I’m looking back on, or whether it’s 5 years ago. It’s when I look back that I can know with certainty that either A) God was at work at that time in my life or whatever event it might have been, or B) God was present.
Technically, and I am sure you know this, God is always present in our everyday lives, and I’m sure that’s why you have this “assignment” in RCIA, to practice noticing this fact. I guess I am not really saying anything helpful…lol…but just one thought, I suppose: since God is Love and, well, God is everything good, technically when one experiences anything good - i.e., peace, love, comfort - that is a chance to recognize God’s presence in your life. So I think moments like that are some of the easiest moments to recognize His presence.
Alternatively - and this can certainly be harder - you could also try to recognize God’s presence in the opposite moments - i.e., in suffering, sadness, etc. - and try to remember that God loves you, knows what you’re going through, and allows such moments for your greater good. In my experience, this can either A) give me the opportunity to recognize God’s presence in the midst of tough times, and to accept His graces which he is always giving to us, or B) it might directly comfort me and give me a sense of peace which then I know is from God and I can then recognize God’s presence.
I hope I made at least a little sense there
