I refer to this as the “Catholic conundrum”. And I am currently caught up in one of my own.
We are encouraged to do something in faith, we do, and it doesn’t turn out the way we were promised, then out come the “small print”…oh…didn’t I tell you…God’s ways are not our ways, God’s time is not our time, the answer might not be what you want, you were poorly catechized so of course it ‘didn’t work’, shame on you for expecting God to do as you ask, you should let God be God, God has something better for you, you don’t spend enough time in adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, you must have sin on your soul, go to confession and try again, how do you KNOW it didn’t work, God did give you an answer,grace,response,sign, but you refused it, didn’t recognize it, didn’t want to see it, really didn’t believe enough for it to happen in the first place, and…better people than you haven’t gotten an answer…who do you think you are that you should expect God to respond to you?
I just thought I was a person taking the Church at her word…
yes, they do a great deal of mischief.
I do not believe that God does, or should operate in that manner…but good Catholics keep telling me He does.
I’m all for letting God be God, He is clearly not a holy vending machine of either grace, faith or material goods. Make the best use of the blessings you have received, worship and give thanks.