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Elizium23
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My parish actually discontinued semi-annual “reconciliation services”. Our pastor and parochial vicar encourage frequent confessions, and our pastor felt that the services actually worked against us: that people thought it was OK to only come to those services and not make frequent confessions when they were in a state of sin or once a month or whatever was most beneficial to their souls. So his philosophy is that by offering generous times throughout the week, every week, even on holy days and holidays, and by showing up to hear confessions, people will come. And he is exactly right. People do come. There is always a long line of penitents at my parish, and the priests frequently run out of time to hear them all. What happens when they run out of time? They go to say Mass and then after it is over, they process directly into the confessional and hear more confessions. It is this kind of dedication from the priests that makes all the difference whether people regularly make good confessions, or not. I would still say that there is room for improvement in my parish, but it is clearly vastly better than the parishes of my youth, and my schools, where I was never encouraged or urged or even forced to make a regular confession, and the reception of this sacrament fell by the wayside as I grew up, and I lost my will to practice my faith, and I eventually left the Church. So yes, I believe people need to be encouraged to make frequent confessions, and in the right way. This will go a long way toward worthy and frequent reception of the Eucharist.I think it’s from making sins not so serious over the years that people don’t think much about it anymore. Maybe if the church had more confession services during the year instead of just at Easter and Christmas more people would go.