Dear brother smad,
Even if he is trying to use economy (I have a hard enough time spelling in english

) to say that contraception is OK, isn’t that a misuse of economy? Can economy really dispense from divine law when alternatives like NFP are available? Furthermore, can economy ever really dispense from divine law?
I don’t have much time, but I feel this is
really important to understand.
Brother Little Boy Lost has explained the Church’s patristic teaching on
oikonomia very well.
Oikonomia is
not a permission to sin,
nor a relaxation of a doctrinal or moral teaching.
Oikonimia, practically speaking (which is really the only sense in which it is relevant), is a relaxation of the canonical penalty normally associated with a particular act that is considered morally or theologically wrong by the Church.
Let’s use the example of stealing. In the early Church, sins always came with AT LEAST a minor excommunication - i.e. deprivation from the Sacraments (aside from Confession, of course) for a period of time, in order to instill in the sinner the gravity of his or her sin. A person steals, and would normally be deprived of participation in the Eucharist for a short period of time (the greater the sin, the longer the period for denial of communion). But if he goes to confession, and his confessor realizes that the person stole for the purpose of providing some necessary thing for his dying mother, then the confessor would, by use of
oikonomia, cancel the normal canonical penalty of minor excommunication.
So the priest, in that example, is not saying, “it is OK to steal,” but rather, is recognizing the unique circumstance whereby that person fell short of the mark, and, by the power of the keys, cancels the normal canonical penalty for his sin.
As explained by brother Little Boy Lost, in terms of other serious sins, the priest may actually consider that the penitent needs the Grace of the Eucharist and thus cancel the normal canonical penalty for the sin.
I have indeed encountered EO who have expressed this classic misunderstanding of
oikonomia - I mean, these
particular EO think that
oikonomia is a relaxation of a moral teaching of the Church. Generally speaking,
oikonomia is considered a relaxation of a rule of the Church. But it would be a mistake to think that the “rule” that is being relaxed is the teaching itself. The only “rule” that is actually being relaxed in applying
oikonomia is the normal canonical penalty attached to the violation of the teaching.
I hope that helps.
Blessings,
Marduk