Okay to give our Priest a Christmas present?

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alyssa:
“No more black socks!”
I don’t know–we have a visiting priest who comes by every so often and he wears white socks part of the time. I know I shouldn’t notice this, but it always catches my attention. :o
 
We just got a gift card to a local book store for our priest. Hope it fits. 😃
 
crobynb said:
"" I’ve read that diocesan priests earn about $12k/year, before taxes. That’s not too much at all. SOME have free rent and SOME have a car allowance, but many do not and either way, they have regular, normal expenses to take care of just like the rest of us.""

If I am not mistaken some priests have even less than that. For example, some Franciscan priests have a certain living stipend granted for the very basics but they have taken a vow of poverty which prevents them from accumulating money in investments or savings - or material goods for that matter. Money for personal purchases, items, or traveling must be asked for and approved by their superior whom they report to.

But priests serving on active duty in the U.S. Armed Forces earn whatever officers of the same rank earn, with full pay and allowances. They also get a percentage of the chapel funds for running joint Sunday School/ Rel ed programs, etc. That doesn’t mean they don’t give a lot of it away.
 
I’m thinking my priest is okay as far as money goes, but now I am doubting whether or not I should have gotten him what I did.
(divine mercy statue). I’ve seen a few people here say not to get religious items. I hope he’ll like it.
Maybe next year I’ll do the gift card thing.
 
The priest at our parish asked that we give him the gift of service. Instead of buying him something he asked for volunteers with the homeless ministry, or the adopt a family program, or helping with cleaning and greeting strangers.
 
Oh, one more thing. Please, please don’t get your parish priest something that is too personal. You’ll just get him into trouble with either the rector or the parish gossips. 👍
 
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dympnha:
Oh, one more thing. Please, please don’t get your parish priest something that is too personal. You’ll just get him into trouble with either the rector or the parish gossips. 👍
Are you thinking what I got him was too personal?
 
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momof3boys:
I’m thinking my priest is okay as far as money goes, but now I am doubting whether or not I should have gotten him what I did.
(divine mercy statue). I’ve seen a few people here say not to get religious items. I hope he’ll like it.
Maybe next year I’ll do the gift card thing.
I’m sorry if I came on too strong. . . he’ll probably be very touched by your sharing of that spirituality that you have recently acquired . . . and you never know, he probably will use it personally or use it to instruct another seeker . . . God bless your generous spirit toward the clergy that give so much to us daily. PRAY for our priests. . .
 
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momof3boys:
I’m thinking my priest is okay as far as money goes, but now I am doubting whether or not I should have gotten him what I did.
(divine mercy statue). I’ve seen a few people here say not to get religious items. I hope he’ll like it.
Maybe next year I’ll do the gift card thing.
The statue is great. It is orginal, not a ton of rosaries or “typical” statues-type things. GIVE IT TO HIM.
 
My priest recently told us that he couldn’t wait for his birthday (Dec. 19) and for Christmas because he wanted gifts and cards to open! He also said he weighed 220 pounds. Subtle hint! So for his birthday I made a donation in his name to Heifer.org. For Christmas I bought him a coin proof set for the year he was born (1959). Thank God for ebay. Last year I gave him cash. I listen carefully to what he says and take my cues from that. He is well loved by the wealthy (not me) parishoners of this rural area. He is exceptional and he works very hard. I try to let him know often what a gift and a blessing that he is. If he doesn’t like what I give him, he never lets on.

Susan
 
Khoria Anna:
I’m sorry if I came on too strong. . . he’ll probably be very touched by your sharing of that spirituality that you have recently acquired . . . and you never know, he probably will use it personally or use it to instruct another seeker . . . God bless your generous spirit toward the clergy that give so much to us daily. PRAY for our priests. . .
You didn’t come on too strong. I just over-worry about things like this. I just really enjoy the priest that is here. I love listening to him talk & wanted to let him know that we are thinking of him. I think it is so great what he & other priests do. I guess I could tell him that - I just worry that I would come across as strange. :eek:
We also had a visiting priest here before Thanksgiving & he was giving talks twice a day & I just loved listening to him. I could have sat there for over two hours listening. Is anyone else out there like this?
 
Yes, I too could listen to my priest for hours. He has forgotten more than I’ll ever know. I respect, admire and trust him. He also sometimes makes me nuts. Part of his charm… 🙂

Susan
 
I feel better now. 😃
I just love listening to what he has to say & trying to put it into action in my life. It just feels so good to be around someone so holy.
 
Oh no, Momof3. The Divine Mercy is personal. I meant something like scarves, gloves, socks and watches. Merry Christmas!
 
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dympnha:
Oh no, Momof3. The Divine Mercy is personal. I meant something like scarves, gloves, socks and watches. Merry Christmas!
Okay, now I am confused. Was the Divine Mercy statue too personal? Or are the socks, gloves, etc too personal? I’ve noticed a lot of other people seem to buy socks & things like that.
Either way…I hope he likes it & it isn’t “inappropriate”. 😃
 
I don’t think Dympnha meant “too personal” like underwear. I think she meant “personal” like “respectful yet having a relationship”.

I hope you gave it to him.

And be glad- our priest has been hinting all through Advent that he would like a 704 some kind of signature race car engine- in every homily. The school cannot afford heat and the kids are going to class with pants and flannel bottoms under their uniforms, he refuses to hire a temp to replace the recouperating janitor- and he wants people to come up with a race car engine. He hints and hints, claims he’s using it as an example of hope and miracles, but he wants that engine.
 
Wow, a race car engine, huh? Now that’s an interesting request. I’d want to talk to him and get details…see if he’s mentally competent or in need of a vacation at the local mental health facility. It’s too late now, but if you could have found one in miniature, that would have been fun. 😛
 
wacky&wonderful:
It’s too late now, but if you could have found one in miniature, that would have been fun. 😛
Was at a church supper with a priest who was telling everyone how one of his friends was given a Lincoln by his parish upon his retirement, hinting broadly that his own retirement was coming up within a year. After a while, a member of the parish council presented him with a shiny, new penny – heads up.
 
wacky&wonderful:
Wow, a race car engine, huh? Now that’s an interesting request. I’d want to talk to him and get details…see if he’s mentally competent or in need of a vacation at the local mental health facility. It’s too late now, but if you could have found one in miniature, that would have been fun. 😛
I think he is suffering from depression, as several bad things hit him this year. But getting him in, or getting the bishop to take the parish staff seriously…that’s a whole 'nother kettle of fish.

Anyway, I thought about a Hot Wheels, but didn’t act on it, as I am currently not on his “good” list.
 
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kaygee:
Was at a church supper with a priest who was telling everyone how one of his friends was given a Lincoln by his parish upon his retirement, hinting broadly that his own retirement was coming up within a year. After a while, a member of the parish council presented him with a shiny, new penny – heads up.
Too bad whoever the person who made the signature engine- can’t remember the name, but remember the 704- isn’t on a coin. I’d certainly love to hand over a 2005 Mario Andretti nickel. 😉
 
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