Hi I don’t know if this is the right forum to post this in but I was wondering if any Indian Catholics can tell me how you celibrate Onam? How do you put Christ in Onam? I am married to a Malayali Indian and this one source of tention I am having with my people now. I would be greatful for your help.
You might want to consult with Syriac Catholics or Orthodox about this. I know that there are different ways in which the traditions of India are brought into the Indian Christian experience, but don’t know if this extends to Onam, which is, as you know, a very beautiful ten-day harvest festival in honour of King Mahabali.
The thing is that there are those who say that King Mahabali was a . . . Christian king . . .
Indian Christians DO celebrate this great harvest festival with Hindus such as Syriac Orthodox and Syriac Catholics. The idea that King Mahabali visits homes spiritually etc. has nothing to do with gods that would compromise one’s Christian faith. The Ukrainian tradition has similar beliefs that are connected to Christmas Eve Supper. If Ukrainians weren’t Christianized, they would STILL be celebrating the Holy Supper using the same foods and traditions (but without the Christian ethos and interpretations involved).
I spent most of last evening reading up on this and while the Hindu connections to this festival are unmistakeable, I don’t see why this festival cannot be outwardly observed within a Christian perspective and focus.
There are many pagan festivals that European Christians have either appropriated and Christianized wholesale or else integrated with Christian celebrations.
Diwali is another Indian festival that Bl Mother Teresa observed within a Christian perspective of course. Onam is quite the national festival of India so why shouldn’t Indian Christians establish a way of observing it as CHRISTIANS. To ignore it would mean that Indian Christianity isn’t willing to inculturate itself within India - not a good thing.
I think you should place Christ and His Most Holy Mother at the centre of your celebration of Onam and demonstrate your enthusiasm for Indian culture within the Light of Christ.
Indian Christians from the time of St Thomas the Apostle have been wearing their saris on the opposite shoulder from that which all Indians wear it - and by that sign, all India knows they are Christians but without offending Indian traditions. You should wear your Cross and then participate in this with your husband out of respect for his traditions and also to show that there is nothing that is foreign to Christ or that cannot be Christianized.
He will love you for that and this may be how God wishes to use you to bring him closer to Christ and His Church. Just go out and have a good time with him with all the rich colour, foods and traditions that this holiday entails. Again, many, many Indian Christians celebrate this holiday with their Hindu neighbours and friends.
Asia is a rich field for Christianization via inculturation and there is still much work to be done!
Alex