Thank you for that elaboration, Gabriel of 12. I have, in fact, heard the you-have-to-be-Orthodox-first-for-us-to-have-an-ecumenical-dialogue-with-you view from some Orthodox (on the internet) but I have never placed very much importance in it. I don’t think very many Catholics do.
The Roman Catholic Church is always Orthodox without the moniker. For one she has never taught or fallen into heresy, as did all the other apostolic see’s, at one time or another and have returned to Orthodoxy.
The Orthodox title was given to those (Greek Byzantine) Catholic Church’s in the East to identify them from those heterodox Catholic Church’s that mirrored them.
The title Orthodox was never dubbed to separate or divide them from communion with the bishop of Rome. That is a topic most Orthodox are not made aware of.
While I agree with you, I found myself guilty of using that term ecumenical with a loose definition not used by the church. Until my priest interpreted an apostolic letter from Pope Benedict XVI to our new local bishop in regards to ecumenical dialogue between the Orthodox, and reconciliation with our separated brethren to Evangelization and conversion with other faiths in our diocese, which our previous bishop had a wonderful rep ore with the Jewish, Indian, Muslim, and native Indian tribal communities in our diocese, who were all in attendance at the reception of our new Bishop, a few years ago.
So I try not to use the term ecumenical out of context. It can be used when applied to an effort being made, but difficult to use when the two faith’s do not have the same foundation to apply an ecumenical dialogue.
I believe the Church’s definition of ecumenical dialogue is true and honest , which removes the grey areas of dialogue without any false pretenses that would prove damaging in the end if both parties went into such a dialogue with false pretenses of converting the other or evangelizing the other to join the other.
A Roman Catholic should never try and convert an Orthodox, or vice versa, they do not need converting one another, they need an ecumenical dialogue without trying to make one Greek and the other Latin. Vatican I and II cleared this up already, we both need to catch up with the councils including our separated brethren who are Christian with all of the Catholic Church.
The Orthodox need not fear, we the Roman Catholic Church do not want to make you Catholic, you already are, nor do we want to make you Latin. We desire communion with you as with our separated brethren. With the Orthodox the dialogue is ecumenical, with our separated brethren the dialogue is reconciliation.
Any/how sorry for the long answer.
Peace be with you