Once, several years ago, she was taking the Eucharist to a parishioner who was in the hospital. The ladies roomate asked if “she could have one of those things”. After talking to the lady (a total stranger), my friend learned that this woman was not a Catholic, not in danger of death & did not believe that Jesus was present in the Host… So…my friend denied her in a very nice way…told her that she did not have the authority to do this, but that she would alert the pastor of her parish that this woman was interested & that he would call & set up an appointment to see the woman. This is exactly what I would have done, but when my friend told her pastor…he reprimanded her & told her that the next time such a thing happened, she was to give the person the Eucharist because that was the Archbishop’s policy. She said that she could not, in good conscience, do so & gave up her ministry.
My point is, these Bishops who show total disregard for their vows of chastity & celibacy, giving scandal to the people of their congregations & to the priests that are supposed to be under their care, are almost always in rebellion about other matters…as I’ve mentioned here, one seems to be reception of the Eucharist by non-believers, another abuse that occurs often is shortening or completely doing away with the sessions for Marriage Preparation. If I had a daughter, preparing for the Sacrament of Matrimony, whose priest told her that “Marriage Prep is just common sense & there is really no need of wasting everyone’s time with these classes”, I’d recommend that she go to a parish that does respect the laws & recommendations of the Church.
In my son’s parish, a couple was wanting to get married immediately & the woman’s annulment process,was not yet complete
but “she was sure there would be no problem”. The priest checked with the Bishop & he said that they should find a Lutheran minister to marry them & have the marriage blessed later by a priest.
This is why I said & still believe that the phrase that I’ve seen so often on these forums, “I’ll just do what my Bishop says”, isn’t good enough. One must be careful who they follow.