Will the strong feelings on this ever go away?
I agree, if your Bishop says it’s ok, then you are being obedient if you choose to raise your hands or even hold hands
. My family holds hands with each other, if my neigbor in the pew offers her hand to me I take it. If she doesn’t, I do not approach her.
The thing that is getting old around here is deciding everything someone dislikes is Protestant.
First of all, not all Protestant things are bad. Where do we get the idea they are?
Secondly, I am a convert although many years ago and I attended many Protestant Churches and never saw anyone hold hands or lift their hands. The only place anyone saw people with their hands lifted was in the Sacramental Churches and in fact Jewish worship.
The thing is, there are so many things that have to do with your Salvation to be concerned about, so many ways you and I need to pray and worship the Lord and to be frank, so little time here on earth to do it, why worry what your neighbor is doing?
If you have a neighbor who is putting their salvation in danger, or leading their kids astray (often with lack of teachinga and discipline) and doing other things that are really serious, you need to be concerned for them as a member of a Parish family. You need to pray for them and counsel them.
However, I hear so many folks here who want certain kinds of Masses. Mostly, here, folks who enjoy Latin Masses. Why don’t you make friends with the very folks you are talking about, and get them to go with you to Father or your Bishop and request it.
We work best when we work together in respect and love as a Catholic family.