In most contemporary US parishes, women are essentially in charge. I challenge a priest to try to get anything done without them. For example, my parish (these are all volunteers):
WOMEN = sacristans, EMHC’s, readers, altar servers, cantors, organists, liturgical planner, secretary, bulletin, DRE, religious ed teachers, prayer group, study group, sick call group, website, Communion services, SVdP, flower and altar decorations, prolife fundraiser, holiday faire, cleaning rectory, seasonal planting, Finance Committee, Parish Advisory Council (some men, but the women make all the decisions)
MEN = ushers, readers, summer BBQ, KofC.
First, I’d better confess I am female. This is partly tongue-in-cheek, but only partly!
Women have a way of doing things very devotedly but also with a flurry and commotion that is not becoming in a man, much less a priest. If our priest did not almost rule with an iron fist, the above women would be up to all sorts of silliness in addition to the 100’s of things they already do. It’s one thing or another, buy new curtains for the hall, sell rosaries after Mass, etc.
That is fine, but it’s all typical female tasks, enlivened by plenty of gossip, confusion, competition and excess emotion. They love it, they are busy bees and they contribute a great deal, and cause a good deal of fuss too. But most of them I absolutely cannot imagine having the gravitas to offer Mass. I have seen women Episcopal priests and there is something “play-acting” about it.
But…now ladies, dare we admit this?

There is one final reason, one definite and sacred sacramental reason that women must never be ordained:
The concept of “the Seal of the Confessional” would disintegrate immediately.
