I found it equally shocking that the Orthodox Churches permit two divorces and three marriages, disregarding Jesus’s teaching that remarriage after divorce in the case of a valid marriage is adultery.
This is not correct.
I have seen Roman Catholics present this mis-stated argument here at CAF before, too many times.
In some cases ther injured party in a divorce is allowed another chance at marriage. This is not something everyone can avail themselves of.
So the church does not ‘allow’ two divorces, it would be one chance for some people to start over if the bishop can agree.
It is also a sensitive pastoral act of forgiveness and healing, not a right to be claimed by anyone. It is a chance to start a normal life again, plugged in to the church and her life-giving sacraments.
Sometimes, in the event of death, the widow or widower can marry again, so in some circumstance that
would make is possible for some people (depending …) to have been married three times in life.
Since the Roman Catholic and Protestant churches also allow widows and widowers to marry again, I do not see that as an issue.
So the question is, ‘what about that marriage after a divorce?’
It was the practice of the Eastern Catholic churches before the schism, a time for which the Papacy claims all were under the Supreme Pontiff’s office and supreme authority.
So the claim that the ‘Catholic Church’ never allowed it is not true.
It seems that the Papacy was very comfortable with this dual system of one divorce in the east vs declaration of nullity in the west. In fact, Cardinal’s Humbert and Frederic, who composed a scathing condemnation against the east (replete with scandalous lies) when they fomented the schism, never even mention this Eastern Catholic practice as a problem. The two men wouldn’t have even had to make it up, they could have just presented the facts and candemned them!
The Roman Catholic church has chosen to nullify it’s own sacraments, or rather to
declare it’s own sacrament to have always been null from the beginning. This is convenient in that once the marriage
‘not-really’ fails, both partners
‘not-really’ can get remarried under the system regardless of who was at fault and who was the
injured partner** ‘not-really’**.
The Orthodox clergy actually advise their members to live in adultery.
Oy veh!
This is calumny.
If you have a reference, you had better present it or withdraw the claim.