Yes, please pay attention to Mickey’s posts here. I have little to add to them except to encourage you that with proper guidance (i.e., probably not from an internet message board

), you can certainly adjust to the Eastern way of doing things, even if you’re quite western. I was worried that I might not be able to hack it myself, seeing as how my church is famous for the sheer length and severity of its fasts, but barring one hiccup early on in the process (during which I was
specifically told not to fast, so Mickey’s words are right here, too; fasts are for our spiritual benefit and preparation, not to risk our health or anything like that in an attempt to be pious), I have not had any problems. Made it through the 55 day Lenten fast without problems, and in fact just today realized how thoroughly I had internalized the fasting when I absentmindedly asked my priest what I should do about a family visit next week that might conflict with the Friday fast. Fr. Philemon responded in a loving manner, though I’m sure he was quite amused: “Have you been fasting still? Why?! It is the Holy Fifty Days! Fasting is not observed for this period, when we celebrate the resurrection. Stop it right now and enjoy life with Christ!”
And I’ve been attending church for the better part of a year now.

Luckily one of the deacons, my former neighbor and a great guy all around, chimed in to help make me feel less stupid: “Don’t worry. I ask about that every year around this time, because I always forget that we actually
aren’t fasting at some points of the year.”

A snapshot into the Orthodox mindset, maybe…