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Catholic parishes are usually a lot less welcoming to visitors, new members, ‘seekers’, and other newbies. Many people have been lost to Protestant denominations or even to atheism/agnosticism because they never felt welcomed in Catholic parish life in America. Typically, a teenager will be invited to a youth function at the local Assemblies of God church, get enthusiastically welcomed at that setting, eventually have a conversion experience in that setting, and be lost from the Church forever. Alternatively, a person never feels loved by his lifelong congregation, so gradually drifts away from Christianity alltogether.
My question: How can a Catholic parish be more welcoming without getting certain people bent out of shape?
Examples: Some parishes hold hands (spontaneously, not enforced by liturgists or celebrants) during the Our Father. A lot of self-described orthodox people object to this and will even sneeze into their hands in order to reject someone else’s hand. Others here have branded them all heretics for this practice.
In some parishes, the priest will introduce himself before Mass starts. Some orthodox people complain it is not in the rubrics, and is therefore forbidden.
Examples abound.
What would you self-described orthodox people do, if you were a parish pastor, to promote a welcoming attitude among your parishioners?
As I stated in my intro, many souls are lost because we are not welcoming enough, so it is a very important topic and can’t be avoided simply because we are uncomfortable with a practice that is not against the rubrics (ie hand holding).
My question: How can a Catholic parish be more welcoming without getting certain people bent out of shape?
Examples: Some parishes hold hands (spontaneously, not enforced by liturgists or celebrants) during the Our Father. A lot of self-described orthodox people object to this and will even sneeze into their hands in order to reject someone else’s hand. Others here have branded them all heretics for this practice.
In some parishes, the priest will introduce himself before Mass starts. Some orthodox people complain it is not in the rubrics, and is therefore forbidden.
Examples abound.
What would you self-described orthodox people do, if you were a parish pastor, to promote a welcoming attitude among your parishioners?
As I stated in my intro, many souls are lost because we are not welcoming enough, so it is a very important topic and can’t be avoided simply because we are uncomfortable with a practice that is not against the rubrics (ie hand holding).