Orthodoxy on divorce and annulments

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An Orthodox bishop can choose to give an Ecclesiastical divorce? If the bishop gives an Ecclesiastical divorce, is that not called a divorce?
So the Orthodox Church opposes divorce but at the same time a bishop can give an Ecclesiastical divorce and a divorce person can remarry in the Orthodox Church. I know because man is weak.
What is called an ecclesiastical divorce is actually an acceptance of the finality of dissolution of marriage, penance and if warranteed permission to remarry. If the Church does not agree with the civil divorce (e.g. no fault), than no acceptance of the end of the marriage is granted, pastoral counseling goes on, and of course no permission to remarry.
 
Does not support divorce??? LOL! They just bless adulterous marriages then. :rotfl: But in fact in order to be multiply-married in Orthodox church one must first get the divorce ecclesiastically approved. :hypno:

The last is a flat out lie. Catholics do not call the children of annulled marriages illegitimate.
That’s because the divorce is labeled an anullment, and the definition of illegitimate redefined. I assure you, the children don’t notice the difference.
You have been told this many times. Is the sin of false witness also excused by economia in the Orthodox churches? :tsktsk: Start a new thread!
Corban.
 
The Orthodox Church recognizes the sanctity of marriage and sees it as a life-long commitment…While the Church stands opposed to divorce, the Church, in its concern for the salvation of its people, does permit divorced individuals to marry a second and even a third time."
Sword, don’t you get it? Orthodoxy does not believe in divorce, but ecclesiastically recognizes divorces up to two times and re-marries the parties involved up to three times. :banghead:

Its no wonder Orthodoxy never produced a Thomas Aquinas with such “logic”.

Thank God I’m Catholic! :signofcross:

Ron
 
Okay, an Orthodox married couple could get a civil divorce and the one of them could go to the Orthodox Church and get married in the Orthodox Church to another mate, right. I think I am being to understand this but I do not agree with it.
This is an admission that the state has authority over the Orthodox Church and can do something they cannot: divorce. In effect Orthodoxy allows the state has the power to bind and loose, not the Church. Its called caesaropapism I believe. This perspective is a product of the fact that since Orthodoxy has split from the Church Goad has allowed her to be ruled by dictators, Muslims and communists.

Ron
 
An Orthodox couple would get a civil divorce (same goes for a couple seeking annulment in the Catholic Church) and then it would be up to the bishop to grant an Ecclesiastical divorce. Then if one of them wanted to remarry, they must repent, ask forgiveness, and perhaps receive a pennance from their spiritual father. The second marriage is not a crowning ceremony. It is penitent in nature.
The difference is that the Catholic Church does not consider that a secular divorce annuls a legitimate marriage. So now you admit that the Orthodox do grant divorces:

Malachi 2
15 Did he not make one being, with flesh and spirit: and what does that one require but godly offspring? You must then safeguard life that is your own, and not break faith with the wife of your youth.
16 For I hate divorce, says the LORD, the God of Israel, And covering one’s garment with injustice, says the LORD of hosts; You must then safeguard life that is your own, and not break faith.

Matthew 5
30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one of your members than to have your whole body go into Gehenna.
31 21"It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife must give her a bill of divorce.’
32 But I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) causes her to commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

God said it, I believe it!
:highprayer:

Ron
 
They just bless adulterous marriages then.
Not to mention the Protestant KJV
I can envision some future day when the Orthodox bless homosexual marriages in the name of compassion.
As usual you are being illogical.
Do you really even believe your own nonsense?
[Alert: expect an evasion of this direct question by Mickey!]
Mickey has spoken!
I suspect in fact that what you are doing in this Catholic forum is trying to convince yourself that your apostasy is defensible:
Now I realize that you Orthodox have problems with Scripture
the many sects of Orthodoxy, being led by fallible men, are wrong.
since Orthodoxy has split from the Church God has allowed her to be ruled by dictators, Muslims and communists.
Thank God I’m Catholic!
And what a wonderful witness you are.
 
You seem to be preoccupied with homosexual issues. :hmmm:

As usual your posts are riddled with insults and uncharitable language. Your animosity toward the Holy Orthodox Church is second to none on these forums. I will pray that you may find peace.

However, I cannot respond to insults and calumny so I will let others correspond with you if they feel so inclined.

May you have a blessed Lent.
Note that in all this irrelevant grumbling there is not one suggestion that I was wrong in principle. Typical evasion, which is getting quite transparent. Keep going, Mickey, you’re making us all glad we are Catholics, members of a Church that FOLLOWS the Bible.
:extrahappy:

Ron
 
A homosexual union, under no circumstances could take place for obvious reasons.
Why not, from an Orthodox perspective? If you approve divorce and re-marriage, in effect blessing the sin, due to “Mercy and compassion”, why would you not be able to apply the same principle to homosexual mariages? If the sin of divorce and adultery is blessed, why not other sexual sins?
As for sister and brother: a sister and brother could not present themselves for marriage, although your (?) previous quote of St. Clement only forbids it when they share the same mother:eek: . Your example of one where they didn’t know their blood relationship is another matter entirely, requiring unique pastoring.
Isa, lets see if you have the power to answer direct questions as Mickey has not. Then what would be the status of a marriage between brother and sister who were not aware of it before they were married in an Orthodox church? Would such a marriage be illegitimate, therefore annulled, or would it be legitimate?
In our mind, remarrying an adulterous couple just because the spouse died is blessing adultery without penance. Yet you seem fine with it.
I know. You do it without the spouse dying. Got that already. You bless adulterous marriages in church, but have a problem with them if they are not adulterous. Got it.

Ron
 
Jesus didn’t speak of anullments at all. So he didn’t offer any cases. Your retranslation of the term porneia doesn’t change that.
Yes He did. He only excepted illegitimate marriages. Just like the term “Trinity” is not found in scripture but the concept is implied by it, so the policy of recognizing some marriages as illegitimate and therefore null is implicit in His words. Yeah, yeah, sorry to bring logic into it again.👍

Ron
 
That’s because the divorce is labeled an anullment, and the definition of illegitimate redefined. I assure you, the children don’t notice the difference.

Corban.
He said Catholics TELL these children they are illegitimate. That’s a lie, plain and simple.

Your cute little “Corban” instead of actually responding to a point is getting tiresome and meaningless. Just thought you’d like to know before you embarrass yourself further by this evasion.:sleep:

Ron
 
This is an admission that the state has authority over the Orthodox Church and can do something they cannot: divorce. In effect Orthodoxy allows the state has the power to bind and loose, not the Church. Its called caesaropapism I believe. This perspective is a product of the fact that since Orthodoxy has split from the Church Goad has allowed her to be ruled by dictators, Muslims and communists.

Ron
During the Inquisition, even when the tribunal condemned the “heretic” they could not carry out the sentence. The state had to do it, because the Son of Man came not to destroy men’s lives but to save them. (see Luke, the Unbelieving Samaritan Town).

In divorce, it is the reverse: the sentence has been carried out. The Church decides if the verdict was just and necessary, as she has been called to bless unions, not dissolutions (which is why usually this issue only comes up with the question of a remarriage).
 
The difference is that the Catholic Church does not consider that a secular divorce annuls a legitimate marriage. So now you admit that the Orthodox do grant divorces:

Malachi 2
15 Did he not make one being, with flesh and spirit: and what does that one require but godly offspring? You must then safeguard life that is your own, and not break faith with the wife of your youth.
16 For I hate divorce, says the LORD, the God of Israel, And covering one’s garment with injustice, says the LORD of hosts; You must then safeguard life that is your own, and not break faith.

Matthew 5
30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one of your members than to have your whole body go into Gehenna.
31 21"It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife must give her a bill of divorce.’
32 But I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawfulMISTRANSLATION) causes her to commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

God said it, I believe it!
:highprayer:

Ron
 
Now that Mickey has conceded the argument we can all go home.
A hypocrite, hunting after the glory that comes from an apparent righteousness, is untroubled so long as he thinks that he escapes notice. But when he is detected, he utters streams of imprecation, imagining that by abusing others he can hide his own deformity.
St. Maximos the Confessor (First Century on Theology no. 23)
 
Why not, from an Orthodox perspective? If you approve divorce and re-marriage, in effect blessing the sin, due to “Mercy and compassion”, why would you not be able to apply the same principle to homosexual mariages? If the sin of divorce and adultery is blessed, why not other sexual sins?
And the two would become one flesh how? And the prayers for children which are repeated during the service, what do you do with them?

You marry an adulterous couple, if they get an annullment or the spouse dies. Our canons, as laid down by the Fathers, forbid such a thing. Somehow you think an anullment or death makes it OK. Oh, yes. Corban.
Isa, lets see if you have the power to answer direct questions as Mickey has not. Then what would be the status of a marriage between brother and sister who were not aware of it before they were married in an Orthodox church? Would such a marriage be illegitimate, therefore annulled, or would it be legitimate?
Do you mean that we have the ability to close our eyes and ignore that brother and sister had consumated a marriage in good faith, begot siblings/cousins, and go into denial that such a situation calls for drastic pastoral counseling? No, I do not believe we have that power of denial.
I know. You do it without the spouse dying. Got that already. You bless adulterous marriages in church, but have a problem with them if they are not adulterous. Got it.
We don’t have the magic word. Corban.
 
Yes He did. He only excepted illegitimate marriages. Just like the term “Trinity” is not found in scripture but the concept is implied by it, so the policy of recognizing some marriages as illegitimate and therefore null is implicit in His words. Yeah, yeah, sorry to bring logic into it again.👍

Ron
No, your mistranslation does. I’ve already posted the myriad of lexica for “pornei” and illegitimage marriages isn’t one of them.
 
He said Catholics TELL these children they are illegitimate. That’s a lie, plain and simple.

Your cute little “Corban” instead of actually responding to a point is getting tiresome and meaningless. Just thought you’d like to know before you embarrass yourself further by this evasion.:sleep:

Ron
I am responding. It is the same speicious reasoning of the Pharisees.

We are aware that the anullment scheme patronizes the children. More importantly, they know it.
 
32 But I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawfulMISTRANSLATION) causes her to commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
I know, Isa, you think that a protestant translator knows more about the ancient Greek language than an ancient Greek speaker like Clement of Alexandria:

“Now that the Scripture counsels marriage, and allows no release
from the union, is expressly contained in the law, ‘Thou shalt not
put away thy wife, except for the cause of porneia;’ and it
regards as porneia, the marriage of those separated while the
other is alive…‘He that taketh a woman that has been put away,’ it is said, ‘committeth adultery; and if one puts away his wife, he makes her an adulteress,’ that is, compels her to commit adultery. And not only is he who puts her away guilty of this, but he who takes her, by giving to the woman the opportunity of sinning; for did he not take her, she would return to her husband.”
Clement of Alexandria,Stromata,2:24(A.D. 202),in ANF,II:379

Now try to wrap your brain around this. Clement spoke greek. He said “porneia” meant a bigamous marriage while the spouse was still alive. In short a marriage that was illegitimate from the start and therefore null. The very ones you Orthodox bless. I realize you like the Protestant translation, considering them so much more knowledgable about ancient greek words than the ancient greeks themselves, though in practice you allow divorce and re-marriage for many other reasons than adultery. Now this is the hard part. Concentrate! Your favored Protestant translation (KJV)translates porneia as “fornication”. That derives FROM the word porneia. It doesn’t tell you what Christ meant by the word. That’s why we look to acient Greeks, not modern Protestants for our translation. I know, still too hard for you. :doh2:

Ron
 
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