I have come to see that the difference’s in the east and west are bigger then I thought.
Perhaps, but not to worry. You could pick any one of the churches we have discussed and be far, far better off than not doing anything.
I would say the similarities may be much greater than you had realized as well. That you are looking at Apostolic Christianity is a great sign of hope, for you and others.
I truly don’t think east and west were EVER that united. And that is why neither side can simply look at how the east and west operated before the schism…they probably never did operate unitedly.
You may be onto something. This is part of the reason “communion” has so much importance to us.
We recognize others as fellow sojourners in Christ by what they believe, and share communion with them. There is no “control” over churches far away, simply recognition. Each bishop recognizes the bishops around him who teach truly, and sometimes they would gather to discuss the issues of the church. That is the origin (in very basic terms) of the synods.
There were synods in North Africa, synods in Gaul, in Syria, in Egypt, in Italy, in Asia Minor, etc. etc. Each one hosted and lead by a Metropolitan. Metropolitans had the biggest congregations and the most disposable assets, so they could be counted on to underwrite a gathering of bishops and put money behind a proposal, if they agreed to it. They could support missionaries better than the newer, smaller dioceses.
As the church began to fill in the empty spaces on the map sometimes priests of two different bishops would be working in the same area, the church eventually had to demarcate each territory so that the missionary efforts would not be redundant. We have old canons relating to this, requiring a priest to gain permission from the local bishop before he begins work in a new area.
So we have an image here of bishops, often working alone in remote places, but always in communication with the other bishops in the region, whether by letter or visit.
but do both sides agree that the differences between Catholic-Eastern Orthodox-Oriental
Orthodox…etc are not serious enuff to jeapordize the salvation of the members of any of these churches?
Some dogmas are not essential to salvation. For instance, does knowing the world is round have any impact on us as Christians? Not much I dare say. Not knowing this fact is not an endangerment to anyone spiritually.
So, if a church were to make a dogma that the world is round I might say that it was pretty unnecessary, no matter how true. If that was the only goofy thing they did I would say that most of their followers are probably in pretty good hands.
Now, if that same church were to claim that denial of this dogma (that the world is round) makes one anathema, condemned and cast out of the church. I would have to say that it was wrong to do this, because there may be that some people, no matter how hard they try, will not understand this new teaching. There is no reason to condemn people for not getting a grasp on unnecessary doctrines. This will cause people to drift away, disappointed and hurt, lost to proper spiritual care because of a completely unnecessary teaching or demand of the church.
To the extent that any church does this, they jeopardize the chances of some of the faithful to find their way to God.