Well, I appreciate your advice.
Yeah, I’m aware of Paul’s teachings on a basic level. I disagree with Paul on the means by which man becomes depraved as well as the extent of man’s depravity. Ephesians 2, coupled with Romans 9, is portraying that man can do nothing but sin until a spiritual regeneration (what christians call ‘being born again’). I would say that I agree with Paul [in Romans 9] when he says that some are raised up as vessels of wrath, but not because they were born as such-- but because they chose to be sinful. I don’t believe in the total depravity that Paul talks about there.
And my differences could be due to the fact that the Biblical and Qur’anic narratives of Pharoah are different in several ways. I don’t believe man is born hell-bound, but that man runs headlong into Hell (i.e. they make a choice to do it).
As we are both trusting in (I would say ) differing manufacturer’s Manuel’s ,I can only use as my source that which I believe God has shown ( or revealed) in my experience ,to be his only true revelation to mankind.
Nevertheless I think we almost agree on certain points.
Firstly your equating Rom 9 and Ephesians 2 with our need for “spiritual regeneration” my soul well likes. “Except a man be born of water and of the spirit ,he cannot enter into the kingdom of God”(John 3:5)
You also state that men " chose to be sinful" as a result "man runs headlong into hell "
Colossians 3:6 “For which thing’s sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience”
Although you may exempt yourself from this description " children of disobedience" I know in my heart,it speaks truly of me.
For me the words of Jesus to a rich ( in his own eyes) young man (Mark 10:18) sheds some light on the universality of that sin which captivates the heart of man.
And Jesus said unto him ,Why callest me good?there is none good but one,that is God."
As this young man only perceives Jesus to be a (holy ) teacher and like himself

nly a son of another man ;Jesus in condescending to such a view, but in reality (testified of his Father through those signs wrought in the power of the Holy Ghost) he was God incarnate in the person of " the Son of God",in reply,I say to a mere human view of his person : it is my belief that Jesus declares" none good but God" only.
So by a simple calculation : if only God is Good ,everyone else is bad.
But by your statement that man “chose to be sinful” by implication I am sure you mean some( you) chose not to be so but rather chose to be good"
For me the holy word of God says just such a belief is in reality a boast.
If the distance ( betwixt God and Man) was so great that only through the offering up of his eternal (and spotless) sacrifice upon that altar ( at Golgotha) “his only Son” could sinners be forgiven; then how great is that sin within the heart of everyman?
“For by grace are ye saved through faith,and that not of yourselves ,it is a gift of God .Not of works,lest any man should boast”(Ephesians2::8,9)