That’s not entirely true. Fundamentally,
love is a reaction to personal activity - not objects. We may fall in love with different personalities based on different life experiences and other dynamics, but my statement is generally true, and would be agreed upon by any self-reflecting person whom has had sufficient life experiences. Love is only blind in the sense that we do not know who we are going to fall in love with.
how it makes us feel and why we react as we do are not lessened by the fact the we know its biological causes.
Knowing the biological processes involved in actualising that
experience, is not the same thing as having an ontological explanation for it’s existence or that the experience of love and the activity of physics is one and the same entity. Materialists often pretend that there isn’t a fundamental problem with their point-of-view or just refuse to explain it in preference of their bias, which is made evident in their uncanny ability to conflate scientific inferences with metaphysical judgements about the nature of a thing; which is exactly what you have done…
When your friend pointed out that you make it a dull thing (
or Richard makes it dull), what he meant is that you reduce the experience to physics alone and thus cannot fully appreciate the reality of beauty on it’s own terms and therefore the ontological consequences of it. In other words you take the experience for granted and thus assume a reductionist point of view.
In the experience of beauty, we see more than just an object, we see a realisation of something desirable and meaningful.
My hope is that you realise that these materialistic ideals are unwarranted and is
certainly not science. That alone would be a victory for reason, let-alone theism.