Overcoming the language of the abortion supporters

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I’m not sure I follow you. What’s wrong with passion?
Passion is good. I just get tired of seeing the right accused by the left of distortion and untruth, while the same charge is made going the other way too, as if one side engages the other more ethically than its opponent.

On both sides, some advocates try to act ethically, while others sink to using untruth and unethical tactics. Neither side has a lock on ethical behavior, when it comes to their rhetoric, and how they use the resources at their disposal.
 
Every crafty movement uses euphemisms to give themselves the appearance of righteousness. Every single one of them. This is how viruses spread. The virus sends a deceptive message, and the blood cell is unable to differentiate between the virus and a legitimate resource, such as a protein, and so it lets it through the membrane. It’s not something that’s going to go away. Basically, you need to be patient and pick apart the opposition’s terminology to explain why how it falls short of actual reality. For example, abortion is not pro-choice, because we do not have the choice to end human life; that would be infringing on other people’s basic human dignity. Etc.
Guess what other “movement” has won this terminology war? Even The Church has caved in recent official documents. I sadly see Roman Catholics employing disingenuous language probably unwittingly. It’s imperative to use the correct language exactly because of the power of words but more important the salvation of souls are on the line.

Pax,
Tarpeian
 
Yes, but bear in mind, an entire race of men’s genitals were and are “mutilated” with circumcision. See, different cultures look at these things differently.
This topic could be a thread of its own. I hope the day is soon realized when male circumcision is viewed as barbaric as female circumcision, and the practice is eradicated.
 
This topic could be a thread of its own. I hope the day is soon realized when male circumcision is viewed as barbaric as female circumcision, and the practice is eradicated.
Yes, it’s a different topic, for sure. But I seriously doubt if a government presumed to assert authority over the practice, that people would stop. That highlights what I see as the first major issue of the Bible: people’s right and duty to submit to God.
 
I am sorry but I am “pro-choice” “for legal abortion” whatever language you want to call it I am for it. If the fetus is too small to live outside of the body well you get my point. There are so many pro-lifers who wish to take away a woman’s right to choose which no matter how you slice it, this is a decision made by the woman who is pregnant. The problem with this is their advice seems to stop there, what do you do with all of these unwanted children? how many of you pro-lifers on this forum have adopted children? You don’t want a woman to make a decision that is right for her or her family but you also don’t want the responsibility that she has decided is more than she can handle. I know I know God will make away, yet how many of you has God moved to intervene? I consider myself a devout Catholic but this is one issue that I do not support the church in.
 
I am sorry but I am “pro-choice” “for legal abortion” whatever language you want to call it I am for it.
Please read this extract from the book “My Broken Christ Walks Over The Waters
Extract from "My Broken Christ walks over the Waters":
You who promote abortion or abortions that seek to snatch from the Author and Lord of life His legitimate and sole rights… you who under the slogan that “a woman has the right to decide about her own body”, are concealing the “right” to kill, which will never be a right… To you I say; please think seriously about what you are doing and get on your knees, pleading for God’s forgiveness and turning your lives around radically, because what awaits you on the other side is so horrible that you cannot even imagine. I say this because the pain you will suffer during your entire lives does not even amount to a thousand part of the pain that you will inflict on your own children while pulling them out of your wombs; and because the pain of a child during the most terrible of abortions will not amount to even a millionth of the eternal suffering to which you are being condemned by your own blindness.

My mission on this journey through the earth is only one, to take as many souls as I can to Jesus. Therefore, as a woman that I am, I am dedicating a few lines to you without the least intention of confronting you with ideas or arguments and without the least intention of hurting any of you. To the contrary, I only want to plead with you to reconsider what you are doing and stop your mad race towards the abyss and that of all those other naïve women whom you “generously help to get out of a problem”.

I do not know how much a word of mine, so poor and sinful, can do to reach your hearts. Nor do I know which of you would be reached by these words of mine, but I do not worry about it because I know that the Lord will take care of that… What I do not want is that a sin of omission may befall me the day I find myself before the Throne of God to be judged. Do not go launching campaigns to destroy the most marvelous thing that the Creator has made with His hands. Contemplate yourselves for five straight minutes in front of a mirror, and think of how much love He must have felt when you were being formed in the wombs of your mothers. So much so that He gave you a soul and intelligence, even if you cannot see one or the other. He gave you strength, courage, health and, perhaps, beauty… Think of how He has formed your hands finger by finger, all perfectly done. And He did it in the hope that you would take in them a rosary, a cross, a flower, a book, a sewing or any other productive tool… But never a murderous knife!

Please wake up! Look towards the light and flee from the darkness! May the blood of the innocent ones, which runs like a river, not wake you up in the middle of the night to drown you in nightmares… Friend, come down from your own altar. Please look; look in front of you. Jesus is on the opposite shore, stretching out His hand for you to take a leap and grab hold of it tightly. Please do not fear, and forgive those who may have hurt you so much… All of us make mistakes, and not just once but thousands of times, yet what is big and wonderful, what is courageous, is to acknowledge them and turn back from the mistaken road in order to take the correct one. Clarity will never come from the hand of those who murder! Flee from them! For even if they convince you of the contrary with their alleged help, they are only going to destroy you.
And Id like just like to leave you with a few quotes -

The pregnant woman doesn’t carry a toothbrush in her womb, nor a tumor. Science teaches that from the moment of conception, the new being has all the genetic code. It’s impressive. It’s not, therefore, a religious question but clearly a moral one, based on science. Pope Francis

“But I feel that the greatest destroyer of peace today is abortion, because it is a war against the child, a direct killing of the innocent child, murder by the mother herself. And if we accept that a mother can kill even her own child, how can we tell other people not to kill one another?” Mother Teresa

Not all moral issues have the same moral weight as abortion and euthanasia. There may be legitimate diversity of opinion even among Catholics about waging war and applying the death penalty, but not… with regard to abortion and euthanasia. Pope Benedict XVI

“Give us the grace… When the sacredness of life before birth is attacked, to stand up and proclaim that no one ever has the authority to destroy unborn life.” Pope John Paul II

"You are called to stand up for life!..You are called to work and pray against abortion……….” Pope John Paul II

“Any country that accepts abortion, is not teaching its people to love, but to use any violence to get what it wants.” Mother Teresa

To say a child is unwanted says nothing about the child, but it says much about the person who does not want his or her child. Jean Staker Garton

“What an irony that a society confronted with plastic bags filled with the remains of aborted babies should be more concerned about the problem of recycling the plastic” Winifred Egan

Christ died so that we might live. This is the opposite of abortion. Abortion kills so that someone might live differently. John Piper

The cemetery of the victims of human cruelty in our century is extended to include yet another vast cemetery, that of the unborn (aborted). Pope John Paul II

God bless, God bless the unborn, God have mercy on those women whose lack of knowledge and strength allow an abortion of their child, and Heaven help those women who know it’s wrong and do it anyway.

Thank you for reading
Josh
 
None of those wonderfully impassioned quotes answers mt basic questions, who is responsible for these unwanted children? While you condemn the mother as a horrible person why would you force a as you put it precious child to be raised by at best indifferent mother?
 
None of those wonderfully impassioned quotes answers mt basic questions, who is responsible for these unwanted children? While you condemn the mother as a horrible person why would you force a as you put it precious child to be raised by at best indifferent mother?
Did you read the extract I provided you with?

It is really quite simple, you are trying to defend the indefensible, you are trying to justify the unjustifyable.

"You who promote abortion or abortions that seek to snatch from the Author and Lord of life His legitimate and sole rights… you who under the slogan that “a woman has the right to decide about her own body”, are concealing the “right” to kill, which will never be a right… "

You call yourself a devout Catholic, personally I find it offensive for you to say that and than try to justify murder, I personally find it even more offensive for you to pretend as if you care by doing so, that’s like a Nazi saying “I consider myself a devout Catholic and I advocate the killing of Jews by the millions in the gass chambers because I care.”

If these women don’t want their Children, why do they not give them up for adoption? why do they opt for murder?

You say “While you condemn the mother as a horrible person why would you force a as you put it precious child to be raised by at best indifferent mother?”

While you condemn the Nazi’s as horrible people for setting up gass chambers and ever more efficent ways to kill, why would you force a Jew to live in their concentration camps?

It’s amazing how you try and defend the indefensible, how you try to justify the unjustifyable.

Thank you for reading
Josh
 
i think that you are all missing some vital compassion. these are our neighbors, our fellow man. “they,” are not out to get us or defame us or anything of the sort. just like us, they believe in what they’re saying and they’re fighting for something worthwhile. they rationalize the consequences, but they are merely misguided. please don’t villianize them.
I am sorry but I am “pro-choice” “for legal abortion” whatever language you want to call it I am for it. If the fetus is too small to live outside of the body well you get my point. There are so many pro-lifers who wish to take away a woman’s right to choose which no matter how you slice it, this is a decision made by the woman who is pregnant. The problem with this is their advice seems to stop there, what do you do with all of these unwanted children? how many of you pro-lifers on this forum have adopted children? You don’t want a woman to make a decision that is right for her or her family but you also don’t want the responsibility that she has decided is more than she can handle. I know I know God will make away, yet how many of you has God moved to intervene? I consider myself a devout Catholic but this is one issue that I do not support the church in.
you might well consider yourself a, “devout catholic,” but you are not a catholic of any kind, just by basic definition. please don’t call yourself one.

your question is judgemental as well as presumptuous. it isn’t for you to say that we are or are not doing the right thing, nor do we answer to you for our charitable works. in fact, if you’ll recall, we are not supposed to draw attention to ourselves when we do what were supposed to. however, to answer your question, some of us contribute to charities that support these mothers and some if us do adopt children. that should be answer enough.
 
None of those wonderfully impassioned quotes answers mt basic questions, who is responsible for these unwanted children? While you condemn the mother as a horrible person why would you force a as you put it precious child to be raised by at best indifferent mother?
That logic is the first step on a dangerous and slippery slope. If it is preferable to kill a child than to let it grow up in poverty, then what right do many others have to life if they are poor, disilussioned, handicapped, disadvanted. Jesus said “what you have done for the least of these, you did for me”. Would you have killed Jesus if he came knocking on your door poor and destitute? If you are rich, it is your duty to help the poor, not to help them kill their children.
 
your question is judgemental as well as presumptuous. it isn’t for you to say that we are or are not doing the right thing, nor do we answer to you for our charitable works. in fact, if you’ll recall, we are not supposed to draw attention to ourselves when we do what were supposed to. however, to answer your question, some of us contribute to charities that support these mothers and some if us do adopt children. that should be answer enough.
Another part of the response to that question is faith. God gave the Israelites manna when they were in the wilderness. He sent an angel to free St Paul from prison. God will help if you are prepared to accept his help. If you receive charity, it is God acting through the giver and answering your prayers. To kill a child because you are afraid you will not be able to feed it is to say you don’t trust God’s mercy and don’t believe God has a plan for your child.
 
You call yourself a devout Catholic, personally I find it offensive for you to say that and than try to justify murder, I personally find it even more offensive for you to pretend as if you care by doing so, that’s like a Nazi saying “I consider myself a devout Catholic and I advocate the killing of Jews by the millions in the gass chambers because I care.”
This is over the line. “Speak the truth in love”, bro!
 
I think the best tack is to ask pro-choicers to explain why it should be permissible for a 5-month gestational age fetus to be aborted, but it is wrong to kill a premature baby who was born at 5 month gestational age. I ask my philosophy students this every semester, and I am yet to have a student give anything like a sufficient answer.
I always wonder how they think like that too and it’s one of my main anti abortion arguments. If I were to go into a neonatal unit and suction a child’s head off I would be considered evil, BUT if I were a qualified doctor doing the same thing to the same age baby in an abortion clinic then I’d be fighting for ‘women’s rights’. What on earth?
 
I am sorry but I am “pro-choice” “for legal abortion” whatever language you want to call it I am for it. If the fetus is too small to live outside of the body well you get my point. There are so many pro-lifers who wish to take away a woman’s right to choose which no matter how you slice it, this is a decision made by the woman who is pregnant.
It is her decision, yes, but the question is: should it be her decision? People in this country do not have the option to steal without legal consequences, but they do have the option to abort without legal consequences. Pro-lifers want to change that.
The problem with this is their advice seems to stop there, what do you do with all of these unwanted children?
If abortion were illegal, there would be fewer pregnancies, because people would realize the potential consequences of their actions. When abortion was illegal, there were fewer teenage pregnancies.

As for the unwanted children, there are tons of pro-lifers and religious orders that have made it known that they are willing to adopt children. Please do not pretend that a mother could not successfully give her child up for adoption.
You don’t want a woman to make a decision that is right for her or her family but you also don’t want the responsibility that she has decided is more than she can handle.
If the only way to make a girl can handle her responsibilities is by killing another person, she’s got a problem. Maybe she could ask for help?

I agree that pro-lifers have to be better about providing such help. But once again, that doesn’t mean that it’s OK to kill someone.
None of those wonderfully impassioned quotes answers mt basic questions, who is responsible for these unwanted children? While you condemn the mother as a horrible person why would you force a as you put it precious child to be raised by at best indifferent mother?
No one is condemning the mother, least of all God. We are all sinners. I myself have done some awful things. But we need to respond to our sins with repentance – otherwise we allow he who condemns – the devil – to be the driving force in our lives.

One question for you: can you tell me the difference between a 24-week gestational age premature baby outside the womb and a 24-week gestational age fetus inside the womb? In terms of law, a person can legally kill the latter child, but will be tried and perhaps sentence to life in prison for killing the premature child. What sense does this make?
 
This is over the line. “Speak the truth in love”, bro!
So true.

If we are going to win this debate, it’s not going to be primarily through bashing logic and unsavoury comparisons but through winning over with love. Love is the best reason why you shouldn’t kill. Period. Let’s not lose that from our focus. It’s the other side that wants to move the argument away from love by distracting us with smart-alec side-arguments and false philosophies. We shouldn’t take their bait, but just remember that any philosophical argument implying that killing is good must - by definition - be flawed somewhere along the line. Any question about the mother’s ability to care for the child or its ability to survive outside the womb are just red herrings that are created to obfusciate.
 
If abortion were illegal, there would be fewer pregnancies, because people would realize the potential consequences of their actions. When abortion was illegal, there were fewer teenage pregnancies.
Unfortunately, this is wholly untrue. I am anti abortion, and have lived in a country with no abortion, but there were still many unplanned pregnancies there. Even if there were fewer teenage pregnancies back in the US in the ol’ days, that was more to do with societal norms. Teenagers did not have the same amount of freedom. They certainly did not live together and pregnancy outside marriage would bring extreme shame on a woman and her family. So there was more factors that made people think twice about pre marital sex.
 
None of those wonderfully impassioned quotes answers mt basic questions, who is responsible for these unwanted children? While you condemn the mother as a horrible person why would you force a as you put it precious child to be raised by at best indifferent mother?
I have to say I have never understood this pro-choice logic. First of all, if a woman doesn’t want children: do not get pregnant!!! Easy and simple, don’t have sex. No sex = no unwanted children, problem solved. What you have stated here and in your previous post is reflection of irresponsible behavior. I don’t see where the “right” comes in here. Right to behave irresponsibly and when you get the consequences of your irresponsible behavior, “ah let’s just kill the baby.” That is no right that is plain irresponsibility. The mother is the one who should be responsible for her children and her actions, the woman who knows cannot afford or take care of a child should not be having sex. Sex causes pregnancy helloooo,the problem here is that in our culture women have separated so much sex from pregnancy that they think they can go around having sex without consequences. Well welcome to the real world, of you have sex you can get pregnant so instead of behaving without thinking, use your brain, be responsible and don’t have sex if you are not ready or don’t want to be a mother.

Second, as to current children living in the world that are unwanted and in less than desirable conditions. The catholic church is one of the biggest organizations in the world that support poor children, poor people, that feed them, that provide help for pregnant women who have no resources. The biggest adoption agencies, places that take care of orphans, places that take care of street children everywhere in the world are mostly nuns, priests or Catholic orders or pro life centers. The church is the first one right there giving help to them. So who is taking care of unwanted children: the catholic church is, so if you are so worry about these unwanted children then don’t you think is better for you to start donating more to the church so the church can help more?

Finally, I want to know how legal abortion has something to do with reducing the number of children raised by indifferent mothers. I invite you to go to spend one day only at any juvenile Court. Abortion has been legal in the US for over 30 years, how come there are so many cases of abused children and abandoned children and so many cases of mothers neglecting their kids in juvenile Court? There are thousands and thousands of cases like these every single day. How do you explain that? Despite having legal abortions there are still going to be millions of children raised by neglectful mothers for the simple reason that what causes these women to be indifferent is the same one behind abortion: IRRESPONSIBILITY!!! Abortion only encourages more the irresponsible behavior in women so no, abortion in no way is a solution to anything. The solution here is for women to start behaving responsibly, to stop having sex outside of marriage, and to start thinking before acting.
 
This is over the line. “Speak the truth in love”, bro!
Could you elaborate please? Did I offend you?

What if you should see the millions testify to the cruelty they recieved at the hands of their own mothers? what if you should see the abyss prepared for those women who condemn their children never to see the light of day? What if you should see the blood of the innocent ones, which runs like a river?

God is loving and merciful, but to those who commit grave crimes against his image (abortion) and refuse to plead for his forgiveness or repent, they are most certainly in for trouble. Make no mistake, abortion is not a simple misunderstanding, misdamenor or slap on the wrist, it is one of the most gravest crimes.

You say, none are condemning the mother least of all God, No offense, but I would re-think that if I were you Prodigal_Son, the mother who condemns her child never to see the light of day, will condemn herself never to see the light of heaven. I would plead with her to repent and plead for our fathers forgiveness for one of the most gravest crimes against his image, against one of Gods greatest miracles, greatest gifts.

May the blood of the innocent ones, which runs like a river, not wake them up in the middle of the night to drown them in nightmares.

If it were any other issue Prodigal_Son, than I would say, yea, sure, but not when it comes to Abortion, I believe the truth needs to be clear and direct, there is no middle ground to be had, I believe it’s really quite simple and clear.

Those who promote abortion or abortions, that seek to snatch from the Author and Lord of life His legitimate and sole rights… those who under the slogan that “a woman has the right to decide about her own body”, are concealing the “right” to kill, which will never be a right.
Matthew 15:12:
12 Then his disciples came over to him and asked, “Do you know that you insulted the Pharisees by what you said?”
Matthew 25:41-46:
41 Then the king will say to those on his left, “Get away from me! You are under God’s curse. Go into the everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels! 42 I was hungry, but you did not give me anything to eat, and I was thirsty, but you did not give me anything to drink. 43 I was a stranger, but you did not welcome me, and I was naked, but you did not give me any clothes to wear. I was sick and in jail, but you did not take care of me.”

44 Then the people will ask, “Lord, when did we fail to help you when you were hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in jail?”

45 The king will say to them, “Whenever you failed to help any of my people, no matter how unimportant they seemed, you failed to do it for me.”

46 Then Jesus said, “Those people will be punished forever. But the ones who pleased God will have eternal life.”
I believe it would be a disservice to have said it any other way.

I would say to the mother who condemns her child never to see the light of day, exactly what I quoted here - #65
Extract from "My Broken Christ Walks over the Water":
Please think seriously about what you are doing and get on your knees, pleading for God’s forgiveness and turning your lives around radically, because what awaits you on the other side is so horrible that you cannot even imagine. … the pain you will suffer during your entire lives does not even amount to a thousand part of the pain that you will inflict on your own children while pulling them out of your wombs; and because the pain of a child during the most terrible of abortions will not amount to even a millionth of the eternal suffering to which you are being condemned by your own blindness.
God Bless

Thank you for reading
Josh
 
Josh,

People are being lied to about abortion, and they are following the crowd. They have inconsistent beliefs about it. The moral responsibility any given person has for supporting legal abortion differs wildly from person to person. We should educate people about this, not yell at them.

No matter what the topic, we need to assume the best of people. It is very plausible that satay is just “following the party line” on abortion, and hasn’t had these thoughts challenged in a truthful and loving way.

If you read through my response to satay above, you’ll see that I’m not soft on the issue, and I’m not compromising the truth. But I’m also assuming that satay is sincere, until proven otherwise. You don’t soften someone’s heart by comparing them to Nazis.
You say, none are condemning the mother least of all God, No offense, but I would re-think that if I were you Prodigal_Son, the mother who condemns her child never to see the light of day, will condemn herself never to see the light of heaven. I would plead with her to repent and plead for our fathers forgiveness for one of the most gravest crimes against his image, against one of Gods greatest miracles, greatest gifts.
You are right that the sinner condemns himself. However, no one else has the right to condemn him, and God forgoes that right. Once the sinner repents, there is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus – no matter what evils they have done.

If I can be of assistance helping sinners come to repentance, that is what I live for. All of my experience of doing this, however, tells me that a human person’s heart must be held delicately. If there is darkness in that heart, I must not use that darkness to bludgeon them. In time, the repentant soul learns the truth of his own evil and comes to hate it with a hate that words cannot even express.
 
Josh,

People are being lied to about abortion, and they are following the crowd. They have inconsistent beliefs about it. The moral responsibility any given person has for supporting legal abortion differs wildly from person to person. We should educate people about this, not yell at them.

No matter what the topic, we need to assume the best of people. It is very plausible that satay is just “following the party line” on abortion, and hasn’t had these thoughts challenged in a truthful and loving way.

If you read through my response to satay above, you’ll see that I’m not soft on the issue, and I’m not compromising the truth. But I’m also assuming that satay is sincere, until proven otherwise. You don’t soften someone’s heart by comparing them to Nazis.

You are right that the sinner condemns himself. However, no one else has the right to condemn him, and God forgoes that right. Once the sinner repents, there is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus – no matter what evils they have done.

If I can be of assistance helping sinners come to repentance, that is what I live for. All of my experience of doing this, however, tells me that a human person’s heart must be held delicately. If there is darkness in that heart, I must not use that darkness to bludgeon them. In time, the repentant soul learns the truth of his own evil and comes to hate it with a hate that words cannot even express.
I agree. My apologies. Abortion is just so cold and heartless and it makes my blood boil when I see people trying to defend it, especially when claiming they are doing good by doing so.
 
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