Parents and Boyfriend

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Did you try and propose him coming over to your house when they are there to see you or did you just want to go out and be alone with him?

It sounds like you want to be around him on your terms, not your parents. A simple hug and a kiss don’t usually just stop there and your parents are wise enough to know it. Let’s face it, most kids who end up having sex start off saying that they’ll never do it. Because your parents are strict does not mean they do not want you to be happy.

I understand that you are a teenager but exactly how old are we talking here? How old were you when you had your first kiss?

I’ve got to point out here that you are also leading your boyfriend into sin by sneaking around. Don’t you want him to end up in heaven without the torture of purgatory? He seemed willing to make the sacrifice but you talked him out of it.
 
BTW, One thing to consider is that your parents might not be keen on anything right now but the more they come to trust you and your boyfriend and see that you have a desire to remain chaste, they may not have a problem with you sitting on the couch together holding hands or kissing goodnight. You may also come to realize, over time, that they have some good reasons for doing what they do. I think as you mature you will also come to realize that the devil makes us want more than a kiss goodnight or to hold hands. That’s his job!
 
I am 16 and got my frist kiss at 15. My parents would not want us to even sit on the same couch!
 
I dont care if I am in front of my parents with him or anyone I just want to be with him.
 
Betraying your parents’ trust in you and your boyfriend is only going to make them less trustful of him, you, and him-and-you together, when they eventually find out about your secret.

Be honest with your parents. Tell them you understand what they think about your boyfriend and his family. Ask if he may visit you at your home in an open room in full view of your parents. The more you are open to working with your parents, with their rules, under their roof, then they will trust you more and more, and may eventually TRUST what you are saying about your boyfriend.

I was your age when I had my first boyfriend. It was very difficult to remain chaste when we were all alone. I wish I had had parents to care about my chastity and help me protect it. We dated a long time and eventually got engaged, however then broke up a month before our wedding was to be. If anybody at that time had told me I WOULDN’T marry this guy, I would have said they were crazy. But growing up makes people change and figure out who they really are.

You are still young and you know yourself how you are NOW, but growing up may change how you are and what you like/dislike. My point is, you may be compatible with your boyfriend NOW, but wait it out under your parents rules and guidance for a couple years until you are an adult and are able to make more decisions on your own!

Obedience was the FIRST virtue followed by Jesus, Mary, and Joseph! Be obedient, even though it is VERY hard at times!
 
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