We forgive them always. They run to us seeking it, and hoping it hasn’t damaged our love. We hug them and kiss them and assure them that we love them always. I always emphasize with the younger ones the penance of charity. What nice thing can you do for your sister, now that you’ve pulled her hair? Can we pray together for the boys on the team who you are so angry at for losing the game? Can we thank God together for all the wonderful things in your life?