I understand this, and I definitely have experienced these transitions, including those that have been very difficult. The long-time pastor (20+ years) of one local parish died about 6 years ago. He was a wonderful man and a wonderful priest, but for a long time after his death, the parish bore his “stamp”. It was somewhat difficult for the new pastor to walk in his footsteps, and thankfully the Bishop chose the perfect priest for the transition. He has recently retired, and a new pastor has taken his place. I recently visited and realized that this was no longer “Fr. ____'s parish” . I realize that these things don’t always go well, however, and I’ve seen the other side, too That doesn’t change the fact that this sort of turnover is less than ideal for the faithful, in terms of our relationship to the parish and to the priest. No, the parish is not about the priest, but the priest is not meant to be a mere administrator of sacraments and finances at the parish. He is meant to be our spiritual father, and it takes time to build a relationship of love and trust. There used to be a lot more stability among the people in a parish, as well, with multiple generations belonging to the same parish, for their whole lives. I think the church has typically envisioned a parish as a family, with the priest at the head, rather than the administrative unit that it is the current model.