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Parishes face new challenges as millennials avoid marriage, family life
Millennials are marrying later and delaying child bearing, complicating Catholic family life and formation.
I think this is a big part of it. Some tell millennials not to get married until they can support a family because they shouldn’t start off marriage using NFP and then turn around and lament that those same millennials aren’t getting married until they are older. Many millennials (especially the older ones referenced in the article) unfortunately graduated into a world of recession where wages were depressed and have never really caught up while cost of living has been rising steadily. It’s a catch 22 for many that I do not envy. (We’ve been fortunate to recover well from the 2008 recession but it took a lot of time, hard work, and luck.)Add to that increasing cost of housing, an uncertain job market where one can lose a job so easily, it’s not so easy to support a family. Also add to that the astronomical cost of healthcare, at least in the US, where childbirth is expensive.
What steps should theologians and pastors take? The Church is a hospital for sinners, which includes all of us. But I don’t think that changing moral teachings about sexual ethics would do any good.And regarding the family life specifically. What happens to people between ages 15 and 38 (when they are getting married)? Well, of course, they are seeking God, church, but the church is closed for them, because they are sexually active during this time and Catholic Church does not recognize it. That is the problem. I hope, that clergy, theologians and pastors are seeing this and will make some steps.
How is the Church “closed” for them?Well, of course, they are seeking God, church, but the church is closed for them, because they are sexually active during this time and Catholic Church does not recognize it. That is the problem. I hope, that clergy, theologians and pastors are seeing this and will make some steps.
What do you mean by this? The Church is not “closed” for anybody committing sexual sin. You’re supposed to not receive Eucharist if you’re not in a state of grace, and if you’re cohabitating or otherwise behaving scandalously, the parish may not accept you for certain ministries - most of which to be honest were not something I wanted to do in my 20s anyway and I’m guessing a lot of other young people feel the same way, ministries tend to attract many older folks.What happens to people between ages 15 and 38 (when they are getting married)? Well, of course, they are seeking God, church, but the church is closed for them, because they are sexually active during this time and Catholic Church does not recognize it.
This is laughable. I know a LOT of millennials who are not having sex this often, generally for reasons that have nothing to do with the Church.Millenials need sex every day, or at least every three days.
Uhh, this is quite a perspective. I will try to think about it. Maybe it changes everything.And no one “needs” sex. You don’t get ill from a lack of sex.
I’m not sure if you’re being funny or not.Millenials need sex every day, or at least every three days. They can not live without it.