I didn’t know God had banned us from watching R rated movies. I suppose you could extrapolate from any number of religious teachings to get to that position but then you’d have to assume that those who interpret God’s will are getting it right.
Do you find such a text in the scriptures? :nope:
However, there are texts which encourage us to guard our eyes because what we see can have a profound impact upon us. While an R-rated movie is less problematic (generally) than true pornography, it is still what Catholics refer to as a “near-occasion” of sin.
And masturbation? From memory, there is one line in the bible regarding that. And quite a few about stoning people to death. I guess you pay your money and you make your choice. I’ll take one and leave one, thanks. You might probably guess which one I rejected.
And in any case, who said anything about Christianity? Pascal didn’t. I think you are approaching this with tunnel vision.
You know full well that the Judeo-Christian tradition has condemned masturbation as sinful in the eyes of God. But if this is a “victimless crime” so to speak, then why? Who is offended by a little self-gratification?
Well, the answer is that God is offended, and we are called to avoid those things which offend Him.
And this important to our discussion because it is just one example of a way that Christians might be inclined to behave differently if God did not exist. Remember, you asked why a Christian would do anything differently because you assume that atheists and believers should be doing the same things for the same reasons. This might be true when it comes to helping an old lady with her groceries or paying your taxes on time, etc., but I have given some examples of ways in which Christians are constrained in their behavior by their belief that the behaviors are offensive to God - behaviors that hold no such consequence to non-believers.
Hey, you asked.
So the fear of hell is claptrap but in the very sentence preceding that you state that people behave differently when they realise He is watching. There is a word for that. It’s hypochrisy.
B: Why didn’t you take the money, Randy?
R: Because God is watching me. I have to give an account some day.
Now what does that imply to you? Well, I guess you’d say you knew it was wrong to take the money AS WELL as wanting to please God. Sure. No problem.
Say my son finds a wallet and calls the guy who lost it and returns it to him. He wouldn’t do that to please his father. Although his father would be pleased. One shouldn’t do something in order to please anyone. One should do it because it is the right thing to do. Period.
No, “hypocrisy” is NOT the correct word. I think the correct word is either “obedience” or “love”. Either we strive to obey God by following His commandments, or we love God and try to avoid displeasing Him. Or both. Jesus tied the two together:
John 14:15
If you love me, you will obey what I command you.
I try to do what’s right. Why would that change if I believed in God? The implication is always that a belief in God makes you a better person. The unspoken implication, and one that never fails to rattle my cage, is that, all things being equal, you, Randy, are a better person than I am simply because of your belief.
And not only that, you have a better insight into what is right or wrong than I do. So is it OK to pass on to you any moral problems I am struggling with? Seeing as you can discern right from wrong in a much deeper sense than I can.
I can understand WHY this “never fails to rattle your cage”: BECAUSE IT’S FALSE.
No one (rightly) says that believers are better people than non-believers. It is entirely possible that the converse can be true on an individual basis.
So, if this error is what’s been sticking in your craw all these years, you can let it go.
Doesn’t it sound odd to you that I might be trying to fool someone that I don’t believe exists? Fooling oneself is the easiest thing in the world to do. Avoid that and you’ll be doing well.
No need to try to fool God…you can’t do it, anyhow. But you can begin to OBEY Him and to ask Him to help your unbelief (cf. Mk 9:24)
If you have a word with Him at any time, mention my name and tell Him that I’m doing my best already and not to expect anything more.
I do pray for all atheist members of this forum at every mass I attend, and if you really want to do your “best”, you might try attending, also.