Easy. The “many (who) live without God” here on earth are doing so under the assumption that God isn’t real, or that heaven & hell aren’t real, or that these realities aren’t at all important. So, it’s easy to live without them here on earth and not suffer. However, let’s have a bit of a thought experiment: suppose you live your life, eschewing all notion of religion and God, but when you die, you find out that it was
all true – God exists, and you had had the opportunity to choose Him and be with Him in eternity; instead, though, through your actions, you chose not to take Him up on His offer. Now, for eternity, you find that you’ve missed out on the ultimate happiness; instead, you only have emptiness.
That’s suffering.
(I just caught “For Love of the Game” on TV the other day. Have you ever seen it? Kevin Costner, playing the main character Billy Chapel, has just reached the pinnacle of his career as a major league pitcher: in his last start, he pitches a perfect game. At the end of the night, he goes to his room and checks his voicemails – there are none. He sits on his bed and weeps – the kind of crying that only a guy who’s lost it all will recognize. You see, despite all the good things he’s just experienced, he’s missing the most important thing: the presence of the woman he loves and whom he’s lost.
My take on heaven? It’s pretty near to that scenario: once we realize what we’ve had, and the opportunity that was given us, and that we threw away – in that moment, we’ll know what true suffering is. Devils? Pitchforks? Fiery pits? Meh – that’s nothing, compared to the knowledge of what we had been offered but threw away…)
“Reality
to me”? What do those two words do, to qualify your statement? Reality
is. It isn’t relative to what you believe or what I believe, right? It. Just. Is. So, take them seriously or don’t take them seriously, but the expectation that “I don’t believe in them, so they don’t exist” doesn’t make any sense, logically speaking…