Sorry, that is incorrect. A bow toward the altar by laity has never been a tradition or customary practice in the Catholic Church until very recently when it was implemented as an underhanded way to increasingly take attention away from the Tabernacle. What is the point to bow to a slab of wood that no longer even contains a relic? I know, “to show respect for the communion meal.”
Sounds cute, but it’s wrong, there is no “proper gesture of reverence” FOR A TABLE! Just as wrong and wacky as holding hands during the Our Father. A blatantly foolish practice that innocent people like you are duped into performing because a misguided priest tells you so.
Reverence - YES! To whom are we showing reverence in a Catholic church? God present in the Blessed Sacrament. So if there is no tabernacle, there is no need for ANY bow, to a table, crucifix or whatever. Your entire posture and disposition is reverent, that’s enough.
Please see if you notice a trend here, in the OP, or in your own parish:
- Tabernacle is moved to the side.
- Genuflecting is discouraged, and becomes awkward with the Blessed Sacrament not front and center.
- With the Tabernacle now being pretty much ignored, suddenly we are told to focus on the altar.
- Hey, now we are told it’s actually “proper” to bow to the altar!
- Step five you ought to be able to guess - hey, didn’t there used to be something over there called a tabernacle?
The GOAL (BELIEVE IT!) is to replace the Tabernacle with the altar (which will soon start to be called, ala paganism, “The Table”.)
There are lots of young people on this blog, and it is impressive and inspiring to see their devotion and love of the Faith. However, some of us old grey-hairs have been watching these little shifty maneuvers since Vatican II and let me assure you, and I’m very sad to say it, when you hear a priest tell you to do something and it’s not in the missal, not in the GIRM, and you never heard of it growing up, and it’s now all the rage in progressive parishes, it’s probably wrong.