Brian,
I fear this reply may be too late to be of much use, but perhaps another reader will benefit.
I would strongly urge you not to become involved with the Paulists. As someone with considerable experience with that community, I can tell you confidently that it is not a healthy community–especially for a young person who is new to Catholicism. If you were my son, I would be very worried about you if you joined them.
Theologically, they are known to be heterodox. Their interpretations of Church documents are nearly always very ‘liberal.’ In a personal conversation with a senior priest in that community, he remarked that ‘there is no more liberal religious community than the Paulists.’ I think he’s right.
In addition to theological heterodoxy, they regularly take major liberties with the liturgy. It seems they do not understand the role of liturgy in creating a common Catholic consciousness and identity. Instead, the liturgy becomes yet another platform to advance their feminist, socialist, pluralist, relativist, protestant agenda. Attend one of their masses in Boston, Washington DC, or Berkeley, and you’ll see just what I mean.
I personally know two men withdrew from the Paulist novitiate upon realizing the extent of the liberalism and heterodoxy of that community. In addition, one felt that the formation situation in D.C. is beyond unhealthy–he called it spiritually toxic and cited patterns of vulgarity, cynicism, irreverence, and contempt for personal piety among men in key leadership roles.
All these criticisms notwithstanding, the Paulists do some important work. But I think they are better characterized as a community of social workers, politicians, and activists than as clergy or missionaries.
If you have not already joined them, DON’T DO IT!
Discernibility (a.k.a. Joseph)