Edwin is explaining better something I tried to point out earlier. Let’s use the example of adultery. In the Old Testament, the Israelites were allowed to stone to death someone caught in adultery. In the New Testament, Jesus makes it pretty clear that no human has the moral standing to impose such a sentence. What changed? Not the character of God! The moral comprehension of the people changed. Prior to the OT revelation, vengeance and retribution ruled. As I understand it, if a woman was caught in adultery, the scorned man could execute her AND her children. Limiting the killing to the guilty person was what Pope Benedict would have called a “first step towards morality.” God didn’t reveal Himself totally to the people of the OT because they weren’t ready for it. They needed to come to understand gradually as they were able to. Because God loved them, He was patient and nudged them slowly towards being ready to understand more.
As for some of your counter-examples I am mystified. In the last 10 years, I watched as an Islamic boarding school and mosque were built near my home. They had some trouble with the stormwater detention and parking stall requirements of the city ordinance for a few months. They didn’t even try to get permission for a minaret or an amplification system for a muezzin, because they probably wouldn’t have been approved. The end product is architecturally very distinctively a mosque though. You honestly think this is similar to how Christians were treated in Iraq, Pakistan, or even Egypt even 8 years ago? That’s some serious denial of reality you have going on.
And that’s the mild one. You had the nerve to equate the strained family relations that often happens when a Christian leaves the faith for another (or none) with the honor killings that my Indonesian college acquaintances feared if their families found out that they had embraced Jesus as Savior and Lord? Sheesh.
As for Vatican City, it’s not a normal country. You can’t buy land there because it’s not for sale. The place exists to support the Holy See. But right at the main entry points to greater Rome, all sorts of religious diversity exists. One protestant sect famously set up an outreach outpost across the street with a big sign out front saying “A Light Shines in the Darkness.” Our Jewish friends call that Chutzpah, but there is no law against it. See much of that just outside Mecca?