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Are we to garner peace through suffering?
Romans 5:2-5
…it is through him, by faith, that we have been admitted into God’s favour in which we are living, and look forward exultantly to God’s glory. Not only that; let us exult, too, in our hardships, understanding that hardship develops perseverance, and perseverance develops a tested character, something that gives us hope, and a hope which will not let us down, because the love of God has been poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit which has been given to us.
It is the suffering and not the resulting peace that we offer up to the Lord - joyful in the opportunity to be chosen by Him to suffer as an expression of His love, so that we may learn to unite our suffering with His and rely on faith that by doing so we are ultimately rewarded.So the suffering remains, even if we have peace that we offered the Lord? To the saints, were they able to transform suffering into peace, such that it could not even properly be called “suffering” for them?
I have garnered peace through suffering. It is something I do not fully understand. But mostly my suffering is through watching others I am close to suffer. Watching someone you love suffer is bitter to me. It reminds me of Mary watching Jesus suffer. She certainly suffered along with Him.Are we to garner peace through suffering?
It is definitely a paradox. I think the peace aquired through suffering is one of the things satan laments in his defeat through Christ’s saving work on the cross. He can’t take away our peace despite any torments he attempts to throw at us. Many graces abound through the suffering of others. I believe the saints do know it is suffering. The difference is that the suffering does not lead to despair but instead deepens their love of Christ - thus increased (not decreased) faith.So it is a paradox of sorts? Because what I’m saying, is that if one gets some kind of peace or joy from what is normally “suffering” then to that saint, it’s not suffering. Or is it suffering, but the saints knows that because it hurts, he brings grace upon himself or others, and thus from that he draws joy?
I’m trying to understand it better too. But didn’t at least God show us that suffering can produce good? The most tragic incident in history was the murder of God Incarnate. And yet it is the greatest victory in history. So even if we yet not understand how suffering is redemptive, is the road to eternal happiness, did God at least not show the way first? Other than that, sometimes there isn’t a set group of “the right words” to tell someone who is suffering. Just offer prayer and sympathy and tell her you understand how difficult it is.Good Morning!
I wanted to add that my sister is having a terrible time with this subject. She believes God is cruel to allow so much suffering, especially by innocents. I understand the paradox, yet, I can’t seem to pur it in the right words for her. I even gave her a copy of Pope John Pual’s Encycical Letter on Christian Suffering. It didn’t help.
Don’t anyone hae any thoughts on how to make this subject more clear to her?
Thanks.
God Bless!
Because it is at this time that they are most intimately united with Our Lord. They are ushered into the Most Holy of Holies and embrace (and are embraced by) the Man of Sorrows. Those hours of deep loneliness and rejection which only Our Lord knows. There is no greater intimacy than to be granted the great honor of entering into Our Lord’s own Passion if only in just a small and inexplicable way.How would saints in the “dark night” experience joy or peace?
I understand that. What I am asking is how do they experience peace in the “dark night.” In union with Christ on the Cross, do they not also cry out with Him, “God, why have You forsaken me?” And it seems to be an important part of theology that Christ spoke those words as He relied on His humanity. I am trying to understand where is the peace in the moment of suffering.Because it is at this time that they are most intimately united with Our Lord. They are ushered into the Most Holy of Holies and embrace (and are embraced by) the Man of Sorrows. Those hours of deep loneliness and rejection which only Our Lord knows. There is no greater intimacy than to be granted the great honor of entering into Our Lord’s own Passion if only in just a small and inexplicable way.
If I’m understanding you correctly (and I hope I am), you are asking whether or not they were in constant peace during all their trials. I don’t believe so. There will be times when saintly men and women experience great suffering (whether physical, psychological etc.) when it seems that God is not present and there will be a great struggle of the will and soul when it feels bewildered by events and circumstances and seems to be disconnected from Our Lord. As thevickinator16 stated, I believe that saints fall back on their prior intimate moments with God whereby they know that He is the great “I Am” even when He seems distant and everything around them is falling apart.I understand that. What I am asking is how do they experience peace in the “dark night.” In union with Christ on the Cross, do they not also cry out with Him, “God, why have You forsaken me?” And it seems to be an important part of theology that Christ spoke those words as He relied on His humanity. I am trying to understand where is the peace in the moment of suffering.
You can see in this thread that I understand somehow peace and joy is there in Christian suffering. But is there a way to understand how?