Perfect Contrition?

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Perfect Contrition has been sold to me as being sorry for my sins because they offend God and not because I fear hell and damnation. Now what normal human being would not fear hell and damnation when in a state of mortal sin? I can see that at the same time one might also be sorry because he loves(not just that warm fuzzy feeling) God and really is sorry because it offends Him. It would seem to me that it would be almost humanly impossible to have only the superior of these types of contrition at a given time. So must one conclude that perfect contrition without fear of hell and damnation present is well nigh impossible for the average Christian? What is the consequence?:confused:
 
Perfect Contrition has been sold to me as being sorry for my sins because they offend God and not because I fear hell and damnation. Now what normal human being would not fear hell and damnation when in a state of mortal sin? I can see that at the same time one might also be sorry because he loves(not just that warm fuzzy feeling) God and really is sorry because it offends Him. It would seem to me that it would be almost humanly impossible to have only the superior of these types of contrition at a given time. So must one conclude that perfect contrition without fear of hell and damnation present is well nigh impossible for the average Christian? What is the consequence?:confused:
In a sense you’re right - perfect contrition is usually described as being infrequent and difficult to attain. There are some - Fulton Sheen being one - who seem to disagree. Then again, the average Christian is Catholic and has confession available to them (where imperfect contrition is sufficient).

And the average non-Catholic probably hasn’t got the same idea of mortal sin as we do (ie that a single sin of itself can damn you), so maybe when they do repent it’s more likely to be out of love and sorrow rather than fear.
 
I agree that perfect contrition is probably very difficult to attain to. I wouldn’t put my trust in it, even though I generally do feel sorry for my sins because I love God and because my sins crucified Him, and I generally just think that He deserves so much better from me. :o

For one thing, sin darkens and muddies our intellect. And even on our best days, it can be hard for us to even know our own hearts. That is why I don’t put my trust in my own perfect contrition, even when I suppose it may well be genuine.

The only certainty we can have is being absolved through the Sacrament of Reconciliation. That’s why God gave us the Sacrament.

That said, I believe–based on what I understand of God’s unfathomable mercy–that if we’re in a situation where the Sacrament is not possible and we are about to die with mortal sin on our soul, God will give us the grace to have perfect contrition and to be reconciled to Him if that’s what we desire.

Praying the Chaplet of Divine Mercy has helped me greatly. It has helped me to love God more than I fear Hell.
 
While it can be difficult to attain perfect contrition, it is always possible to have perfect contrition because of the grace of God.
 
Does perfect contrition exist only in the total absence of imperfect contrition, or can the two exist simultaneously?
Can I be said to have perfect contrition if it makes up the majority of my motives for repentance?

The classic “Act of Contrition,” remember, includes statements listing both motives.
“…because of Thy just punishments but mostly because they offend Thee Who are All-Good…”
 
Perfect Contrition has been sold to me as being sorry for my sins because they offend God and not because I fear hell and damnation. Now what normal human being would not fear hell and damnation when in a state of mortal sin? I can see that at the same time one might also be sorry because he loves(not just that warm fuzzy feeling) God and really is sorry because it offends Him. It would seem to me that it would be almost humanly impossible to have only the superior of these types of contrition at a given time. So must one conclude that perfect contrition without fear of hell and damnation present is well nigh impossible for the average Christian? What is the consequence?:confused:
I can only speak from personal experience.

I know as a Protestant, that I had perfect contrition. I also know that as a Catholic Christian, I have had imperfect contrition more often than perfect.

I think the reason, for good or bad, is I realize that God gave me this wonderful gift of the Sacrament of Reconcilliation to make things right. Perfect contrition is really much harder to attain, but the only way possible as a Protestant.
 
rwoehmke,

My understanding is that perfect contrition would consist of having as its primary motive the love of God whom has been offended. This does not mean that there cannot be secondary or lesser motives, such as fear of punishment, in an act of perfect contrition.

I think the problem (that of considering “perfect contrition” to be contrition exclusive of any other motive that love of God) often arises when we confuse “AN ACT of perfect contrition” with the notion of “A PERFECT ACT of contrition.” IAs you pointed out it would be extremely difficult for someone to perform a perfect act of contrition. . . but perhaps it is not so rare that we perform an act of perfection contion, where we understand perfect contrition as having as its primary motive love of God.

Fr. John Hardon defines perfect contrition in his Catholic Dictionary thus:
Sorrow for sin arising from perfect love. In perfect contrition the sinner detests sin more than any other evil, because it offends God, who is supremely good and deserving of all human love. Its motive is founded on God’s own personal goodness and not merely his goodness to the sinner or to humanity. . . . Moreover, in the act of perfect contrition other motives can coexist with the perfect love required. There can be fear or gratitude, or even lesser motives such as self-respect and self-interest, along with the dominant reason for sorrow, which is love for God.
The same is echoed in Catholic Answers *This Rock *magazine(Quick Questions) February 2003 (Vol 14, #2) response here:
Both kinds of contrition, which are not mutually exclusive, assume the resolve to sin no more.
The Catholic Encyclopedia entry on Contrition gives us even more light:
All are agreed that pure, or disinterested, love (amor benevolentiæ, amor amicitiæ) suffices; when there is question of interested, or selfish, love (amor concupiscentia) theologians hold that purely selfish love is not sufficient.
The Encylopedia points out that disinterested love suffices, while purely selfish love is not sufficient. This means that disinterested love alone would obviously by Perfect Contrition, however *there can be an admixture of selfish love. *However selfish love alone (purely) is not sufficient.

This possiblity of an admixture, always keeping in mind however that the *primary motive *must be love of God, is admirably summed up in the standard Act of Contrition, as pointed out by drforjc:
O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended Thee, and I detest all my sins, because I dread the loss of heaven, and the pains of hell; but most of all because they offend Thee, my God. . .
Thus this standard act of contrition expresses as its primary motive love of God who was offended, and as a secondary motive dread of loss. I would submit that this standard Act of Contrition, would suffice for for perfect contrition **IF **the internal motives corresponded to the expressed words.

*So perhaps an Act of Perfect Contrition is not as rare as you may have thought! *

If, on the other hand, perfect contrition meant an exclusive motivation out of love of God, then you would be right to be concerned about the implications, ESPECIALLY for christians who do not have access to a sacramental confession. Since imperfect contrition, or attrition, suffices for sacramental absolution, but only perfect contrition suffices outside of the sacrament (and for a Catholic this must be accompanied with the intention to avail oneself of sacramental absolution as soon as possible), then it would seem that extra-sacramental forgiveness of sins (for both catholics and non-catholics) would be rare.

That would be a very serious thing indeed. But, thankfully, the definition of perfect contrition does contemplate the mixture of other secondary motives.

What do you think?
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