Perpetual recollection

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“Pray without ceasing.”—1 Thessalonians 5:17.

One of my long-term goals has been to practice perpetual recollection, or the offering of our attention to God’s presence in every moment (including this one; hello Jesus :)). I’m still not very good at doing this, though, for extended periods of time. Right now, when I am not at home, I actively “remember” Him only at various scattered points throughout my day. That’s okay though–I’m thankful for that.

I would like to learn how to practice this in different situations. When I am driving or walking to class, it’s nice to talk to God for a few minutes, but I’m not sure how to practice recollection when I’m doing something that requires my attention–like reading or doing homework. I can offer these activities to Him, but that’s not recollection.

What do you think?
 
Hello Jared

St.Teresa of Avila sympathizes with those who have a difficult time in prayer: “All the trials we endure cannot be compared to these interior battles.”

Yet her experience gives us wonderful descriptions of mental prayer: “For mental prayer in my opinion is nothing else than an intimate sharing between friends; it means taking time frequently to be alone with him who we know loves us. The important thing is not to think much but to love much and so do that which best stirs you to love. Love is not great delight but desire to please God in everything.”

To her, spiritual life was an attitude of love, not a rule. Although she proclaimed poverty, she believed in work, not in begging. She believed in obedience to God more than penance.

I hope this helps a bit
 
Keeping God in mind all hours of the day is not possible. We must sleep at some time. (Yes, there are some saints who deprived themselves of sleep so they could do God’s work; such was their calling, and cases like that are quite rare). Upon rising, it is beneficial to say and mean a prayer that goes something like this:

"O God, I offer Thee all my actions of this day for the glories and intentions of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. I wish to sanctify every beat of my heart, my every thought, my simplest works by uniting them to Its infinite merits. I wish to make reparations for my sins by casting them into the furnace of Its merciful love.

O God I ask of Thee for myself and for all those I hold dear the grace to fulfill perfectly Thy holy will and to accept the joys and sorrows of this passing life so that we may be one day united together in Heaven for all eternity."

While God cannot be in mind at all times, if you say and mean a prayer such as the above, i believe it can suffice.

It is true that i go about my day scarcely thinking of God and i’m going to share a story which made this very clear. i used to pray a Rosary every day early in the morning. There was a knot that was loose on the Rosary between the Crucifix and the first bead. It was a type of knot that let the rope pass by when pulled a certain way. With my borderline-OCD i would always feel the need slide the knot back up to the first bead upon seeing this (it would slowly work its way down to the Crucifix). Then one day i made a little deal with myself. i did not slide the knot back up to the first bead as i would have liked to but instead left it as is and told myself that if i could think of it during the course of my day when i wasn’t praying the Rosary, i would let myself tighten it. i was amazed at how many times i woke up the next morning to find the knot still slid down to the Crucifix - i had not thought of my Rosary at all yesterday besides when i prayed it. Though thinking of God can involve much more things besides remembering a Rosary, it still stood that i did not give much attention to God in daily tasks.

There was one day where i offered up my eyesight voluntarily. i closed my eyes and fastened a sock around my head. i was able to do this since no one else was home all day and i had no other important tasks to attend to that day (otherwise i wouldn’t recommend it). Among other household chores i found it peculiar how many things were still possible. During the course of the day i put the silverware away. i was able to feel which utensil it was and feel where it was to go based on the ones that were already in there (i look at the silverware drawar all the time but it surprised me i hadn’t memorized the layout). Anyway, to this day when i put away the silverware i usually remember that day i had no eyesight and remember to thank God for my eyesight. There were other tasks i did that day that have not retained this facet, though, like folding the laundry. It was otherwise truly pathetic how unthankful i was for my eyesight even the very next day after the “blind” day - i scarcely thought of it. How easy it is to take God’s gifts for granted!:o

And pretty much every time i see chimes throughout my daily life i remember to think of the souls in Purgatory and ask God for forgiveness for them; another long story.

It would be ideal to eventually have some material instrument remind me of God in some way.
 
Two book recomendations: “Practice of the Presence of God” by Brother Lawrence (a Carmelite) and, if you’re a little more ambitious, “The Cloud of Unknowing.”

Dave 🙂
 
Before you start to read or do your homework, which is a necessary thing to do, just say a short prayer to offer it up to the Lord, and make an act of faith in His Presence. This sanctifies what you are doing, which is important to your life.

When a mother has a baby she isn’t hugging it all day long and saying “I love you” to the infant. She has to prepare meals, wash clothes, etc., but all these things can be done with love and resignation.
 
Before you start to read or do your homework, which is a necessary thing to do, just say a short prayer to offer it up to the Lord, and make an act of faith in His Presence. This sanctifies what you are doing, which is important to your life.
Very nice 🙂

In addition, simply talk to Him (interiorly) in the midst of whatever you’re doing. You can do this type of prayer anywhere, anytime. Our words don’t need to be long . . . but from the heart. Sometimes an inward smile toward He whom we know is present is the best prayer of all. 🙂

Recollection is simply recalling our minds to Him whenever we notice we’ve strayed. Or, more accurately, to continually “un-forget Him.”

Dave 🙂
 
“Pray without ceasing.”—1 Thessalonians 5:17.

One of my long-term goals has been to practice perpetual recollection…
It is a good goal and you have received good advices so far.

I think the best way to pray without ceasing is out of love, intense love.

Do you have the experience of falling in love? Do you remember how you think of the other person all the time? You wait for his or her mail and phone call with a pounding heart. You read his or her love letter again and again until you recite every word. You think of his or her voice, smiles, words. You indulge yourself with the thoughts of that person. He or she is in your heart all the time, even in your dreams. You just cannot stopping thinking of the beloved. The more you cannot see him, the more you want to see him, and the more you think of him. Your fascination cannot be quenched. That’s how pray without ceasing comes true.

Several ways can help develop such a burning desire toward God. Practice the presence of God, pray and ask God to give you such grace, read the Bible - God’s words and love letter to us. Listen and sing spiritual hymns and songs. Singing is a double prayer. Also go to Eucharistic Adoration and receive Sacraments frequently. All these efforts can help us develop a deeper relationship with God. When we not only know Jesus well, but fall in love with him, perpetual recollection becomes possible.

Hope this helps. God bless you!
 
It is a good goal and you have received good advices so far.

I think the best way to pray without ceasing is out of love, intense love.

Do you have the experience of falling in love? Do you remember how you think of the other person all the time? You wait for his or her mail and phone call with a pounding heart. You read his or her love letter again and again until you recite every word. You think of his or her voice, smiles, words. You indulge yourself with the thoughts of that person. He or she is in your heart all the time, even in your dreams. You just cannot stopping thinking of the beloved. The more you cannot see him, the more you want to see him, and the more you think of him. Your fascination cannot be quenched. That’s how pray without ceasing comes true.

Several ways can help develop such a burning desire toward God. Practice the presence of God, pray and ask God to give you such grace, read the Bible - God’s words and love letter to us. Listen and sing spiritual hymns and songs. Singing is a double prayer. Also go to Eucharistic Adoration and receive Sacraments frequently. All these efforts can help us develop a deeper relationship with God. When we not only know Jesus well, but fall in love with him, perpetual recollection becomes possible.

Hope this helps. God bless you!
what happens if a person felt this way about God but is now struggling with even staying with Him? sorry I don’t want to change the topic… Im just wondering how is perpetual recollection possible if that feeling is not there? does love become determination simply based on choice? (at least for a time)
 
what happens if a person felt this way about God but is now struggling with even staying with Him? sorry I don’t want to change the topic… Im just wondering how is perpetual recollection possible if that feeling is not there? does love become determination simply based on choice? (at least for a time)
We can’t force what our feelings are or aren’t…but we CAN make acts of the will. Feelings come and go, but the Lord sees what is in your heart.
 
what happens if a person felt this way about God but is now struggling with even staying with Him? sorry I don’t want to change the topic… Im just wondering how is perpetual recollection possible if that feeling is not there? does love become determination simply based on choice? (at least for a time)
Feelings come and go. I was using an analogy to describe the intense love. Our faith and intense love for God are not depending on feelings. That’s why the practice of the presence of God can help us form a habit of recollection. The Sacraments bring us closer to God. The readings of Scriptures and spiritual books get us to know God better. And our prayers, the communion with God, the right tuning - both talking and listening, develop our relationships with God. Then, our recollection becomes often and regular, gradually, the good habit has formed, the perpetual recollection becomes possible.

If one has experienced the intense love for God and now is struggling of staying with Him, that’s when the will of love and discipline come in. Just like when we made all kind of efforts to get close to God, we now continue to make efforts due to the love deeply imprinted in our souls. If the intense love I described in my analogy was not a temporary feeling but a deep knowing and genuine commitment, we will be able to do the same in our down time.
 
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