Personal Relationship With Jesus Christ

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CopticChristian I have to address this post. You just accused me of making generalizations and chastised me about doing it. Well, I need to inform you that you have made the most flagrant generalization of this whole thread.
Pull the words out where I specifrically accused you so I may see them as you see them. I do not see your name mentioned in my post.😊

In the post you take issue with the fact that I summarized and formed an opinion. You are welcome to summarize and form a different opinion.

My brother Jesus says I must speak the truth in love. I speak with love.
 
Pull the words out where I specifrically accused you so I may see them as you see them. I do not see your name mentioned in my post.😊

In the post you take issue with the fact that I summarized and formed an opinion. You are welcome to summarize and form a different opinion.
Well, if my name was mentioned specifically then it wouldn’t be a generalization would it. I recall that the post I was accused of making generalizations did not mention any names either.

In fact, my post made “generalizations” about the whole of Christendom, I included all Christian traditions in my critique of “nominal Christianity”, including other Evangelicals.

You, however, generalized exclusively about evangelicals. Since I am one, it does offend me.
 
I believe in agreement and disagreement. May I ask you the same question that Miriam has not answered.

I say that there is but one OHCAC
I say that there are 7 Sacraments and you enter the Church through Baptism
I say that we are saved by grace alone, by Faith alone working in love
I say that we are regenerated in Baptism
I say that the deposit of Faith in the OHCAC is the deposit of Faith left to the apostle by Christ.

Do you agree or disagree with the above?
 
CopticChristian I have to address this post. You just accused me of making generalizations and chastised me about doing it. Well, I need to inform you that you have made the most flagrant generalization of this whole thread.
Let me be more specific since you do not grasp what I am saying. I see dysfunctional, judgmental thinking in the other than Catholic postings. I challenge anyone to read the postings by other than Catholic & Lutheran and compare them as to the writings. I see Catholics & Lutherans speaking only of their personal experience and not translating that to what others SHOULD do. When any one sees that that is a red flag.
What evangelical Protestants criticize
What we criticize are
It is dysfunctional to generate criticisms and in fact generating the belief that there is some authority to do so.
I think there is a quality-control problem.
The discussion of “personal relationship with Jesus Christ” is a prime example of poor Protestant quality control.
What in the world is quality control? Children, people are led to believe that they are not good enough. Who is anyone to judge if someone is good enough to start with and then to judge that their Christianity in practice is good enough as it regards a relationship with the saviour.
My post is not about judging people at all. I do not know the heart of any person but my own. **However, **I do know that there are people who go through a process of initiation and conversion in the church (whether they be Catholic or Protestant) and nothing ever comes out of that.
This sort of statement is like saying " I love you BUT you are ugly", or “I love you HOWEVER you smell”…it negates everything you said before. When you insert however or but…when you say you do not judge you then follow with a judgmental statement.
It is** not enough**
has to become real
Thus, affiliation with a church is not enough.
When we are truly in relationship
This is all dysfunctional. Son you are not truly my son, it is not enough and you are not truly in relationship with me…What kind of message do you think this generates. I don’t want someone believing they have the power to make me feel that what I do is not good enough, and untrue…God didn’t make no junk. These are signs of judgmental thinking.
the Catholic Church as a truly Christian church which has some theological and practical elements which are questionable.
So when they meet a Catholic who is not very engaged in their faith, they see a soul that needs Jesus to be real to them.
Since there are questionable elements and there is a chance that Catholics are not truly Christian the judgment comes “are you truly engaged”.? How do you know? This is Catholic Answers. Do you believe that the Catholic Church is Christian? What elements are questionable? How do you judge when a Catholic is engaged in their Faith. These are all elements of a dysfunctional Family member questioning a sibling.
They are labeled “backsliders” who have walked away from Jesus and need to return to him.
There salvation is in doubt, and we wont give them any false sense of security.
They wont be permitted to have a leadership role or any type of position of responsibility.
So if my actions are contrary to those of Christ, then the church cannot give me a false sense of security.
Life is not easy…I cannot imagine ever having encountered a family member or a Catholic Church member labeling me a “backslider”…hey backslider how are you doing…This is reminiscent of the Scarlet letter…let’s all go get our sin tatooed on our forehead…Hey how are you fine…can you check my label please…BACKSLIDER, BACKSLIDER…go away…Can you imagine me telling my sister…I think you’re salvation is in doubt…I don’t want you to feel secure…God forbid you make your brother and sisters feel any security let alone a false security…how about working out your own salvation with fear and trembling…
I think many evangelicals perceive from what they know of the Catholic church that within it is a permissiveness to sin as long as one does all the right things, like go to confession where they are absolved.
Yes, the logical outcome of evangelical belief is the acknowledgement that not everyone who claims to know Jesus in fact knows him
I sad specifically and quite clearly that evangelicals criticize the fact, the existence, the concept of a “Christian in name only.” Who are these “Christians in name only?”
That was NOT a criticism of Catholicism. There are Catholics who do know Jesus.

There is no permisiveness to sin just an avenue to forgivness and grace. You look at this as a cup half empty not a cup half full.

I have asked for and have yet to get the elements of the logical outcome. Claiming that those that claim something can be wrong in their claim is a judgment. Criticism of others appears to be the norm. Christian in name is a judgment. There are Catholics and they all know Jesus, some better than others but who am I to determine that and why is this mentioned believing that it is not a criticism of Catholicism.

I hope this clarifies your lack of understanding.
 
Well, if my name was mentioned specifically then it wouldn’t be a generalization would it. I recall that the post I was accused of making generalizations did not mention any names either.

In fact, my post made “generalizations” about the whole of Christendom, I included all Christian traditions in my critique of “nominal Christianity”, including other Evangelicals.

You, however, generalized exclusively about evangelicals. Since I am one, it does offend me.
I am offended by all of the thinking that has been put forth as some sort of formula for having a Relationship with Jesus. I find it difficult to understand how sanity can prevail in such a world. That is just me and I speak for me. I have pointed out where those difficulties lie. You have yet to answer simple questions such as the logical conclusion.

In my opinion, if there was ever any thought to join with Evangelicals, this thinking would be prohibitive to my mental health.
 
I believe in agreement and disagreement. May I ask you the same question that Miriam has not answered.

I say that there is but one OHCAC
I say that there are 7 Sacraments and you enter the Church through Baptism
I say that we are saved by grace alone, by Faith alone working in love
I say that we are regenerated in Baptism
I say that the deposit of Faith in the OHCAC is the deposit of Faith left to the apostle by Christ.

Do you agree or disagree with the above?
I’m not talking about doctrine. It just seems like you were shooting Irwin down for having an opinion, like because he is not Catholic his opinion is invalid. I happen to agree with him that there are nominal Christians both Catholic and Protestant.

I just think it is not right to accuse him of being judgmental for saying that. Surely we can discuss things without resorted to that. He never said he was judging who fell into each camp, he was just disagreeing quite rightly with the “All Catholics are just following empty rituals and need to be converted and have a personal relationship” thing.
 
Yet another stellar example of kindness.
I always try to remember we are too be encouraging by our words and even more so as the day of Christ 's appearing draws closer…We have to be careful that we are responding to to argument posted and not making comments about the poster themselves. We are to esteem and lift up rather than brow beat… You also can tel a lot about the person’s spiritual maturity in how they comment. We all are seeing through the glass darkly until we see him face to face…

PS. Sister Miriam. God bless you. I hope you don’t mind I edited your post. I didn’t want to direct this to any one person…Our person feeling some times get in the way of our responding in love…
 
I’m not talking about doctrine. It just seems like you were shooting Irwin down for having an opinion, like because he is not Catholic his opinion is invalid. I happen to agree with him that there are nominal Christians both Catholic and Protestant.

I just think it is not right to accuse him of being judgmental for saying that. Surely we can discuss things without resorted to that. He never said he was judging who fell into each camp, he was just disagreeing quite rightly with the “All Catholics are just following empty rituals and need to be converted and have a personal relationship” thing.
Seems like would be a simile. Help me understand how you see this. Explain where you see me contrast you are not a Catholic and I am?

Agreement and disagreement are good.

You call pointing out an observation accusation. I suggest you point out the accusation as it differs from an observation, inference and an opinion. Give me some insight as to how you see this so that I may understand your perception. Perception is everything. What you percieve to be true is true. I require that when there is misunderstanding that you point out what it is you percieve and clarify it and we can discuss understanding or lack thereof.👍

This is of course if there is intent to understand and clarify. I am always open for that.
 
I always try to remember we are too be encouraging by our words and even more so as the day of Christ 's appearing draws closer…We have to be careful that we are responding to to argument posted and not making comments about the poster themselves. We are to esteem and lift up rather than brow beat…** You also can tel a lot about the person’s spiritual maturity in how they comment.** We all are seeing through the glass darkly until we see him face to face…

PS. Sister Miriam. God bless you. I hope you don’t mind I edited your post. I didn’t want to direct this to any one person…Our person feeling some times get in the way of our responding in love…
I liked everything you said until I saw your ability to measure spiritual maturity. Tell me how you do that.👍

Give me some examples of how you grade these comments. I can gain insight into how someone understands, percieves, is functional or not however seeing spiritual maturity by observing a comment is not something I know…tell me how you do it. Take your time.

I can tell a person is immature when …

I can tell a person is maturing when…

I can tell a person is immature when…

Thank you:thumbsup:
 
I’m not talking about doctrine. It just seems like you were shooting Irwin down for having an opinion, like because he is not Catholic his opinion is invalid. I happen to agree with him that there are nominal Christians both Catholic and Protestant.

I just think it is not right to accuse him of being judgmental for saying that. Surely we can discuss things without resorted to that. He never said he was judging who fell into each camp, he was just disagreeing quite rightly with the “All Catholics are just following empty rituals and need to be converted and have a personal relationship” thing.
Thank you asd72. I realize that in coming to Catholic Answers Forum that I am a guest. I always have tried to be charitable and represent the evangelical viewpoint to the best of my ability. I have tried to make clear to CopticChristian and others my views and the views of the majority of evangelicals; it seems I have failed to do that.

Since long posts don’t really seem to help, I will sum up my thoughts simply: It is entirely possible to criticize and disapprove of Nominal Christianity without judging or condemning any individual person or single tradition.
 
I liked everything you said until I saw your ability to measure spiritual maturity. Tell me how you do that.👍

Give me some examples of how you grade these comments. I can gain insight into how someone understands, percieves, is functional or not however seeing spiritual maturity by observing a comment is not something I know…tell me how you do it. Take your time.

I can tell a person is immature when …

I can tell a person is maturing when…

I can tell a person is immature when…

Thank you:thumbsup:
I’ll pass
 
Thank you asd72. I realize that in coming to Catholic Answers Forum that I am a guest. I always have tried to be charitable and represent the evangelical viewpoint to the best of my ability. I have tried to make clear to CopticChristian and others my views and the views of the majority of evangelicals; it seems I have failed to do that.

Since long posts don’t really seem to help, I will sum up my thoughts simply: It is entirely possible to criticize and disapprove of Nominal Christianity without judging or condemning any individual person or single tradition.
Your thouhgts are appreciated and I truly understand how people consider such things as liberal Christianity, Conservative Christianity, etc…I take the same issue with imposing any qualifier on the term Christianity. There is but one Christ, the same yesterday, today and tommorrow. To qualify Christ does not sit well with me. To qualify Christianity in my mind is qualifying Christ in my mind. On the other hand it appears that somehow this thread went off track…
What is it? And what is the standard for determining whether one has it?
[Primarily a question for protestant evangelicals - I hear this term “personal relationship with JC” quite a bit, but looking for an operational definition.]
The original posting asked the question, it was answered, it was commented on and I would imagine that there may or may not be more to be said. The side track is recognized and probably relates to how much one listens to the person you have a relationship with, in my opinion.👍
 
Isn’t it time to give this thread a rest? It seems to have strayed far from the OP’s question. I think everyone knows by now how each feels.
 
Originally Posted by 1voice
Well,
Your editorial is noted.
You folks can bless … or candeem … whatever you choose…

I was simply pointing to the fact that an outward display does not necessarily correlate with an inward dedication … no matter what religion a person may choose to practice.
Consider that as I understand it Extrinsic Justification declares the sinner to be an acquitted criminal, appearing to be what they are not. Then contrast that with as I understand it Protestant thought that there is regenaration by saying a sinners prayer and saving Faith.

Then…

Catholics say you are truly regenerated by the Spirit in Baptism and are truly a child of God inside and out…and our outward appearance just demonstrates disobedience and may become prodigal.

Then

Consider you cannot judge a book by its cover, one may look holy and be holy, look holy and not be holy, not look holy and be holy and not look holy and not be holy. What is it you can judge by the exterior is irrelevant.
“Man looks on the exterior … God looks on and only values the heart”

Rituals have no value at all (absolutely none… no matter who instituted them), and change nothing if there is not a heart after the truth performing the act. Rote repetition is worthless…Jesus cast … “Woe” on the leaders of the Jews that followed the letter of the law given to Moses by God… and called them whitewashed tombs.

You draw a line of distinction based on which Christian Church that a person attends.
I dont.
Obedience and dedication to God through Jesus does not mean obedience to a particular Christian religion IMHO.

The Kingdom of God is righteousness peace and joy in the Holy Spirit… no matter what Christian church a person attends.

In the last days God is pouring out his Spirit on all… with the goal of winning as many as are willing … out of a dying world… Through hearts dedicated to him … not religion. In fact … many people run from religion … but openly embrace Christ… Pilate said "What is truth?’ Jesus said to Pilate … the ones that God is drawing to himself hear his voice and can discern truth. Pilate’s own wife was one of those who knew the difference … and tried to warn her husband not to harm Jesus. Religious affiliation is worthless … without a heart after God.

“Multitudes … multitudes In the valley of decision.”

Can these dry bones live? … Certainly! … but life only exists in the presence of fellowship in the Holy Spirit. The well that never runs dry.

I realize that Catholics believe that all of the above can only be accomplished within the bounds of Catholicism … I have looked at the evidence and have concluded that God is gathering his family … all over the world in this generation … and denominational lines and religious taboos dont matter in the least to him… Just as they didnt matter to him when he spoke to the woman at the well (from a people that worshiped the same God …but that were despised by the Jews of that day)… Jesus offered to give that religious outcast … the water of eternal life.

… Religion builds walls. God builds relationships.
 
Originally Posted by 1voice
Your premise is based on a quote taken out of context.

It is not my intention to differentiate between the various expressions of Christianity.

My study and experience over the past 60+ years (25 of them as a Roman Catholic) overwhelmingly indicates to me that all of true Christianity has the common thread that you are affirming from your perspective.
 
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