Pets are not the same as babies

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No, it is the false equivalence that is the problem. If the person the OP was talking about really could not see the difference between a baby and a dog, or argues that it is more important to save eagle nestlings than unborn babies, that is a problem.
Saving **both **is important. Yes, saving the unborn is, spiritually-speaking, on a higher plane, but everybody has their own ministry. Some advocate for the unborn. Some advocate for animals. Both are necessary and correct.
 
Saving **both **is important. Yes, saving the unborn is, spiritually-speaking, on a higher plane, but everybody has their own ministry. Some advocate for the unborn. Some advocate for animals. Both are necessary and correct.
Exactly! We are called to different things/works.
 
The English language routinely uses the same word for uses from the mundane to the sublime–I love chocolate and I love my wife and I love God. You can call your orchids or your roses or your bonsai your “babies,” and that is not inherently offensive.

No, it is the false equivalence that is the problem. If the person the OP was talking about really could not see the difference between a baby and a dog, or argues that it is more important to save eagle nestlings than unborn babies, that is a problem.

It is OK to not enjoy children, and it is OK to try to a deter a parent from going on and on about their parenting difficulties because you have no experience and have no idea what to say to their complaints. I’d stick with “I’ll have a better idea what to do with him when he starts talking, I’m sure…”
Exactly!
 
Saving **both **is important. Yes, saving the unborn is, spiritually-speaking, on a higher plane, but everybody has their own ministry. Some advocate for the unborn. Some advocate for animals. Both are necessary and correct.
Exactly!
 
Saving **both **is important. Yes, saving the unborn is, spiritually-speaking, on a higher plane, but everybody has their own ministry. Some advocate for the unborn. Some advocate for animals. Both are necessary and correct.
But this is not the point of this thread.
 
The English language routinely uses the same word for uses from the mundane to the sublime–I love chocolate and I love my wife and I love God. You can call your orchids or your roses or your bonsai your “babies,” and that is not inherently offensive.

No, it is the false equivalence that is the problem. If the person the OP was talking about really could not see the difference between a baby and a dog, or argues that it is more important to save eagle nestlings than unborn babies, that is a problem.

It is OK to not enjoy children, and it is OK to try to a deter a parent from going on and on about their parenting difficulties because you have no experience and have no idea what to say to their complaints. I’d stick with “I’ll have a better idea what to do with him when he starts talking, I’m sure…”
This is the point of this thread.
 
Severus68, please start your own thread.
While Severus68 and I rarely agree on anything, and certainly not on this topic, Severus68 is nothing if not polite, on topic, and a good participant in a discussion. Way more than Severus67 ever was!😉
 
While Severus68 and I rarely agree on anything, and certainly not on this topic, Severus68 is nothing if not polite, on topic, and a good participant in a discussion. Way more than Severus67 ever was!😉
Thanks HD. Yes, that Severus67!
 
Saving **both **is important. Yes, saving the unborn is, spiritually-speaking, on a higher plane, but everybody has their own ministry. Some advocate for the unborn. Some advocate for animals. Both are necessary and correct.
This is an important clarification. Mother Teresa never said no one should put in a park until every poor person was fed. After all, the children need us to make sure there will be eagles for them, too, and parks. The greater and the lesser that are both of true value do not need to be in conflict. No, the point was that there is an objective standard of greater and lesser.
 
Why please? If you choose to start a thread and/or post in a public forum, you should expect people to respond, not all in line with your views. I have not been rude or uncharitable.
I would agree with this. Even in objecting that my tone in an earlier post could be taken as condescending, you were making an important point and doing it without any disrespect towards me. It is common to have to refine what is meant when making points and counterpoints, lest in clearing up one misunderstanding we unintentionally create several more!
 
Hi everyone,

What would be the right thing to do when a dog owner keeps telling you, directly or indirectly, that her dog is just like your baby. In other words, when you say, for instance, “my baby keeps waking up due to bad dreams and then I have to rock/ feed/soothe him” and you get told back, " I never go to my dog when he cries due to a bad dream, he usually soothes himself".:eek:

Do you ignore it?
Do you look back in utter shock?
Do you say pointedly " babies are not the same as pets?
Do you stay silent and let the silly statement remain in the room for everyone to also feel the silliness of it?
What should one do/ say?

Ps: to all pet owners, don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against them. I love animals but they have their own place and that is not the same as a baby’s.
This is a battle that we can choose not pick.
I have dogs and I love my little dogs. But I do not confuse them with my grandchildren. Let sleeping baby dogs lie.

Besides, you DO NOT know the grief and sorrow someone else may be carrying. Animals can and do help many people over come tremendous sorrow and pain. Don’t take the chance on making fun of someone who may be grieving, or is lonely, or is hanging on by the very slender thread of a dog lease.
 
I would agree with this. Even in objecting that my tone in an earlier post could be taken as condescending, you were making an important point and doing it without any disrespect towards me. It is common to have to refine what is meant when making points and counterpoints, lest in clearing up one misunderstanding we unintentionally create several more!
Thank you. I appreciate this.
 
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