Offering up minor discomforts is good. However, I think that major physical penance - horsehair shirts etc, - should not be undertaken except under the guidance of a spiritual director. Extreme penances can easily lead to spiritual pride.
**]Very well put.
There’s a story about a monk who went to a famous elder to get his blessing to wear chains as a physical penance. The elder said, “Let’s talk about it after we eat.” During the meal, the elder struck his visitor so forcefully he fell out of his chair. The monk arose with angry words on his lips, but the elder did a prostration before him and said, “Forgive me, brother, but if you cannot hold your temper, what good will the chains do you?”**
thanks! i’m just looking for more ways to suffer as jesus did. it’s not fair that he had to do all that and sweat his own blood and I get to have comfort every second of my life.
Christ does not want to give us what is “fair” or “just”–but something INFINITELY better. There is only ONE suffering that can possibly save us.