Pictures of Gay Wedding

[lakotak]

The way I will probably proceed is to try and avoid the issue if possible, if not, I am going to decline and just tell him,in a nice way, that I like him as a person and co-worker, but his lifestyle is against my belief.

 

[Michael57]

By mentioning the hijack you are participating in the hijack.

I’m curious to know how the OP decided to proceed…

Then…

Take me to Habana! (they have the good cigars!).

Back to the topic of the thread: the OP shows prudence in his replies, I think it will turn out alright.

 

[Michael57]

The way I will probably proceed is to try and avoid the issue if possible, if not, I am going to decline and just tell him,in a nice way, that I like him as a person and co-worker, but his lifestyle is against my belief.

Go with God. I think you will be fine.

God bless you.

 

[Jacob18]

Look at the pictures, smile, say you are happy for him and that he found love.

It’s called being a decent person.

 

[nickybr38]

Look at the pictures, smile, say you are happy for him and that he found love.

It’s called being a decent person.

The insinuation being if she doesn’t she isn’t a decent person? Wow. Just… wow.

Emotional blackmail much.

 

[Allegra]

The way I will probably proceed is to try and avoid the issue if possible, if not, I am going to decline and just tell him,in a nice way, that I like him as a person and co-worker, but his lifestyle is against my belief.

I expect that will turn out all right, especially if you’ve already established a respectful working relationship with the person.

 

[Jacob18]

The insinuation being if she doesn’t she isn’t a decent person? Wow. Just… wow.

Emotional blackmail much.

What, do you think that being a bigot is a good thing?

If you tried to show me pictures of your church and I wouldn’t look at them because “they’re offensive” would I be a decent person?

I support our constitutional rights and am happy that we have religious freedom, and freedom from religion if someone so wants to believe such. If someone wants to express their human rights why is that offensive?

 

[clem456]

The way I will probably proceed is to try and avoid the issue if possible, if not, I am going to decline and just tell him,in a nice way, that I like him as a person and co-worker, but his lifestyle is against my belief.

Good luck, be confident and respectful, I 'm sure it will turn out fine.
Respectful and honest communication solves so many problems in this world. Frequently it’s not the substance of the issue or the action you take that is an issue, but how you communicate with the person, that either gains understanding or misunderstanding between two people.

 

[nickybr38]

What, do you think that being a bigot is a good thing?

If you tried to show me pictures of your church and I wouldn’t look at them because “they’re offensive” would I be a decent person?

I support our constitutional rights and am happy that we have religious freedom, and freedom from religion if someone so wants to believe such. If someone wants to express their human rights why is that offensive?

If you wouldn’t look I’d shrug and say: Okay.

But honestly I wouldn’t even try to show you pictures of my church unless you showed interest in my church.

Unless the OP has shown interest in this man’s relationship he has absolutely no reason to be showing her pictures.

 

[nickybr38]

What, do you think that being a bigot is a good thing?

If you tried to show me pictures of your church and I wouldn’t look at them because “they’re offensive” would I be a decent person?

I support our constitutional rights and am happy that we have religious freedom, and freedom from religion if someone so wants to believe such. If someone wants to express their human rights why is that offensive?

BTW, it’s not a basic human right that you can show your pictures to whomever you want to.

Really your argument is so ridiculous I don’t know why I’m dignifying it with an answer. Call me bored I guess.

 

[lakotak]

Look at the pictures, smile, say you are happy for him and that he found love.

It’s called being a decent person.

In your opinion it may be being called a decent person, but what about being a truthful person?

 

[RileyG]

I understand where you are coming from.(IE…Public school forcing PP and ABC down my and the student’s throats.). I’m not sure what to say other than I’ll pray for you.

 

[ratsaj]

Then be like Jesus and turn the other cheeck my man. You don’t want to sabotage your work-relations. And I am pretty sure the kissing might be left since it’s not a church-wedding? I believe marrying in front of the government has no you may kiss the bridegroom. But I could be wrong here.

Anyways you could at least pretend you looked and tell him you wish him well. Being gay is not a choice its a tendency that somehow exists… Animals also might have male on male sex.

I hope you find a place in your heart to forgive it all and just keep your contacts with that guy good. He might be gay but he obviously means no harm whatsoever.

We are not comparable to animals in that which concerns morality or instinct.To even suggest that because some animals may cohabit and copulate with their own sex and we are in a way following what is evident in nature is to reduce us to the level of the animal that we are authorized dominion over.We are made in the image of God not animal.Our inheritance of being is to be like God and Christlike not revert to the clay from which he formed us.I absolutely hate this comparative in the homosexual argument to promote or validate their errant cause that what may be observed sexually in the animal is relevant and proper to us.Science cannot be given freehand without contested argument to promote its some of its anti Christian agenda.