I consider a traditional Catholic anyone who is interested in not only being faithful to the magisterium, but also someone who really values the richness of Church tradition including prayers, feasts, novenas, the Saints. One does not have the desire to break with the past, but tends to be extremely interested in the old traditions.
It just so happens that a lot of traditional Catholics are interested in the older form of the mass as well as in Latin.
This may be your consideration of what a “Trad” is but I’m not too sure that such is the case in practice.
The question posed by the OP is something I have wondered about as well.
Based on my exposure to the Traditional Catholicism forum here on CAF, I would say that for most, to be traditional is to be concerned with the liturgy of the pre-1962 Roman Missal. My observation of most who label themselves as “Traditional” is that faithfulness to the magesterium, ancient prayers, observance of feast days, practices such as fasting, saying novenas, and veneration of the saints, in the absence of the Tridentine Mass, is not considered “Traditional.” My comment is not meant as a challenge, only as an observation, which I will grant is from a position of limited visiblity. I welcome correction in charity, and to better understand, would simply pose the following question…
Would you be comfortable with a parish which does not provide the pre-1962 liturgy if the parish had all the attributes described by True Light above? What if perpetual adoration, habited Dominican Sisters, visiting Franciscan priests, and frequent use of incense were provided? Chant instead of hymns? Latin? Or is the Tridentine Mass a prerequisite for being a Traditional Catholic?
Again, not meant as a challenge. I would sincerly like to hear what Trads have to say.
-Tim-