Please help me understand this problem

[sebo3e]

Is it a sin when you accidently offend someone your mouth is faster that you when you didnt want to say?

Like for example you say you have no idea have no clue that you didnt wanted to say that but you said it with some strange urge of your mind being tired while you said that by not even being aware that so fast passed as that was done

So basic is that considered sin to say you have no idea in that way etc? because its offensive to say that

i feel bad now because of that

 

[TheLittleLady]

When we accidentally commit a sinful act, our culpability is lessened or removed. The best course is to apologize to the person in the next breath.

 

[sebo3e]

I understand thanks for telling me i did that actually why do i feel still bad

 

[TheLittleLady]

Because you are a kind person, you feel bad when you hurt someone.

 

[sebo3e]

Yeah that s true also i can still take communion?

 

[TheLittleLady]

We never “accidentally” commit mortal sin. As long as you are disposed (have fasted for an hour, are not aware of any grave sins) you may receive.

 

[Hoosier-Daddy]

Yeah that s true also i can still take communion?

You cannot receive if you are in mortal sin and not in a state of grace. There are three conditions to be met for mortal sin.

1. Grave matter
2. Full knowledge
3. Full consent of will.

Now, it is up to you to form your own conscience. Internet strangers should not be your conscience. You are responsible for your own conscience.

 

[sebo3e]

what if you didnt want to say that what got faster that your own mind?

plus i whould ask you what about this idea to practice humility that whould be good choice for everyone here!

 

[Annie]

Did you fill all three conditions for mortal sin: grave matter, full knowledge, and full consent? It does not seem like you did, given what you have written jere.

It is hard to learn to pause so you can think before you speak. Consider where the problem lies: are you thinking about your reply while the other person is still speaking? In that case, focus on his words instead of your thoughts. Or whatever is the problem.

As to humility, pray the Litany of Humility and consider how each line fits in your life. It’s online, but if you have trouble finding it, let know and I will post a link.

 

[sebo3e]

Sorry for late reply and thanks and good idea can you give me to translate it in Croatian?

 

[Annie]

Here it is

O Jesus! meek and humble of heart, Hear me.

From the desire of being esteemed,
Deliver me, Jesus.

From the desire of being loved…
From the desire of being extolled …
From the desire of being honored …
From the desire of being praised …
From the desire of being preferred to others…
From the desire of being consulted …
From the desire of being approved …
From the fear of being humiliated …
From the fear of being despised…
From the fear of suffering rebukes …
From the fear of being calumniated …
From the fear of being forgotten …
From the fear of being ridiculed …
From the fear of being wronged …
From the fear of being suspected …

That others may be loved more than I,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.

That others may be esteemed more than I …
That, in the opinion of the world,
others may increase and I may decrease …
That others may be chosen and I set aside …
That others may be praised and I unnoticed …
That others may be preferred to me in everything…
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should…

 

[TheLittleLady]

Humility is part of being a Christian.

Learn to speak slowly, to consider your words before you speak them.

 

[Hoosier-Daddy]

Most people cannot really speak faster than their mind works. I think the idea is that if you stopped and thought about if what you were going to say was appropriate you would have maybe come to a different conclusion. The answer to that is simple. Stop and consider the morality of your words before you impulsively say them if you find that this is an issue.