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I don’t know what to do and i’m going crazy…when it rains it pours and I feel that i’m drowning in my own tears…GOD please help me…

I keep thinking things will be OK and trust the GOD is looking out for me and then something always happens…WHY!! I don’t have the energy for all this…its a pain that I can’t stand anymore…

I have begged my boyfriend of 1 year ( he has been the best most wonderful and understanding man that has come into my life…I’ve asked for prayers and posted our situation before) for another chance and he made me feel that everything is okay but now he’s back to just telling me how he needs his space and that yes he loves me but doesn’t want to feel that i’m forcing him to come back…I love this man with all my heart and we had already spoken and even seen engagement rings and now I have messed it al up!!!
I don’t know what to do …should I just leave him alone or should I keep contact with him?

also, my 23 year old daughter is back to her old ways(hanging out with the wrong crowd and loosing her job) and staying away all weekend and leaving my 3 year old granddaughter behind with her other grandma …

please help me…i’m starting to loose it all
 
Hail Mary, full of Grace. The Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou amongst women and Blessed is the Fruit of Thy Womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

My prayers are with you! As to the boyfriend, let him go. Your eternal soul and earthly sanity are way more important. I will also pray for your daughter. :hug1:
 
Janie, when you’re in this much pain, you need to get medical help. Give the remaining pain to the Lord. I pray your situation improves.

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My God, I offer You all my prayers, works, joys, and sufferings in union with the Sacred Heart of Jesus, for the intentions for which He pleads and offers Himself in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, in thanksgiving for Your favors, in reparation for my sins, and in humble supplication for my temporal and eternal welfare, for the needs of our holy Mother the Church, for the conversion of sinners, and for the relief of the poor souls in purgatory.

:signofcross:
 
Hail Holy Queen, Mother of Mercy! Our life, our sweetness and our hope!
To Thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve. To Thee do we sigh, mourning and weeping in this vale of tears. Turn, then, most Gracious Advocate, Thine eyes of mercy towards us and after this our exile, show unto us the blessed fruit of Thy womb, Jesus. O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary; pray for us O Holy Mother of God. That we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ!
Amen.

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou, amongst women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit as it was in the beginning is now and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen.
 
I think first you need to take a look on what marriage really means.

youtube.com/user/onearmsteve4192/search?query=Marriage
Take a look on these videos and watch the ones that you find most pertinent.

As for your daughter, I’d recommend showing and asking her to view and study the lives of the saints. I think this is to most powerfull way to convert someone to the Holy Church back again.

For me, what stops me from sinning most of the times is remembering that I am the creature and God is the creator. I have no right to desobey God and I don’t deserve nothing in return for obeying God. All the good things I have and done are God’s grace.

Once your daughter is back on the tracks, see if telling what I just said above to her helps.
 
I would strongly encourage a devotion to St. Rita. She is the patron saint of hopeless and desperate causes, as well as troubled relationships. She has always interceded for me in any novena I have prayed asking for her help. I think she could be a real friend and advocate for you. I hope your situation gets better! God bless.

Prayer to St. Rita in Special Need

O powerful St. Rita, rightly called Saint of the Impossible, I come to you with confidence in my great need. You know well my trials, for you yourself were many times burdened in this life. Come to my help, speak for me, pray with me, intercede on my behalf before the Father. I know that God has a most generous heart and that he is a most loving Father. Join your prayers to mine and obtain for me the grace I desire. You who were so very pleasing to God on earth and are so much so now in heaven, I promise to use this favor, when granted, to better my life, to proclaim God’s mercy, and to make you more widely known and loved. Amen.

St. Rita, pray for us!
 
Hail Mary,
Full of grace,
The Lord is with Thee.
Blessed art Thou amoungst women,
And lessed is the fruit of Thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
Pray for us sinners,
Now and at the hour of death,
Amen
 
janiejnb said:
I don’t know what to do and i’m going crazy…when it rains it pours and I feel that i’m drowning in my own tears…GOD please help me…

I keep thinking things will be OK and trust the GOD is looking out for me and then something always happens…WHY!! I don’t have the energy for all this…its a pain that I can’t stand anymore…

I have begged my boyfriend of 1 year ( he has been the best most wonderful and understanding man that has come into my life…I’ve asked for prayers and posted our situation before) for another chance and he made me feel that everything is okay but now he’s back to just telling me how he needs his space and that yes he loves me but doesn’t want to feel that i’m forcing him to come back…I love this man with all my heart and we had already spoken and even seen engagement rings and now I have messed it al up!!!
I don’t know what to do …should I just leave him alone or should I keep contact with him?

also, my 23 year old daughter is back to her old ways(hanging out with the wrong crowd and loosing her job) and staying away all weekend and leaving my 3 year old granddaughter behind with her other grandma …

please help me…i’m starting to loose it all
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Praying for the intentions of you & your family.
 
thank you everyone for all your prayers…i’m feeling a lot calmer now. your kind words have helped me see some things from a different point of view. I know it will not be easy but my faith is in GOD and I shall let go and leave it in his hands…also, could I get help in praying that I find a job…GOD Bless!
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

†

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†
 
***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death
Amen.

:crossrc:***
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

†

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†
 
Hail Mary, full of Grace. The Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou amongst women and Blessed is the Fruit of Thy Womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Many people pray to St Anne for their future spouse as well as other intentions. I will add you to my intentions as we pray Day 5 today. Why not join us and catch up, PrayMoreNovenas.com?
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

†

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†
 
Will keep you and your loved ones in my prayers.

You have to give your friend his space. Let him do the calling if he wants to get in touch. You go on and live your own life apart from him. It’s hard, but it will save you a lot of grief in the bigger picture.

If it doesn’t work out, don’t blame yourself, just trust that it wasn’t in the divine plan. It’s better to be living good lives separate rather than in a relationship that’s a mess, because that’s no way to start a marriage. You both have to be fully willing and freely consenting when entering marriage for it to be valid, anyway. It’s not something he can be coerced in, or even be feeling coerced about.
 
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