Please I am begging you for your prayers

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I continue to pray for the speedy and complete recovery of your mother. As always, remembering your intentions at daily Mass later on.
 
Anathama_Sit said:
Greetings Catholic Answers Forum,

It is with sad and sorrowful heart that I write this. I have been on the phone with my family. My mother is still in a coma. She shows no reaction to anything that the doctors do. My family broke some heartbreaking news to me, I am her Medical Power of Attourney, which means I have to make the choice if ever to to end life support. This is so much more than I can bear.

My family has been asking me what do to, they will not go against my wishes. I have talked with Mom’s doctors extensively. The doctors are not so confident as they were a few days ago. They do say she is not suffering any pain. So that is a bit of a relief.

For once I am facing a decision that either way I am not sure of. I have notified my school, my SD/Confessor and friends over here that I may have to go to the United States of America should this be done. I know that I want to be there should this have to come to be.

My family wants me to end life support, but I can’t explain to them that I wish to have faith in God and let him decide when He is ready to take her. My heart is grieved.

Please I am begging for your prayers, for Masses said for my family, my mother, and I, Rosaries, Divine Chaplets.

Thank you so much.
God BLess,
Anathama Sit
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You have to do what you hear your heart saying, not what emotion say. What does your heart say…that is you mother talking…go some place quiet where no one can influence you and say good-bye or say fight. You will feel it not hear it…just give you self silence.

my mother died, in a coma, I had to decided to let her go, but I followed my instinct all the way and now 19 years later I still feel I chose what she could not voice.

I wish you well, it is a horrible position to be in. LOVE, care, love, pressure, love, pressure, unknowing, but you do know … trust it.
 
Glorious St. Jude with faith in your goodness I ask your help today. As one of Christ’s chosen Apostles, you remain a pillar and foundation of His Church on earth. You are counted we know, among the elders who always stand before God’s throne. From your place of glory we know you do not forget the needs and difficulties of Christ’s little ones here still struggling, like me, on the way home to God. Please intercede for me, gracious St. Jude, and be with me in my daily toil and in all my necessities, especially for Anathama Sit’s Dear Mother. In Christ’s name, I appeal to you again today. Amen.
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death
Amen.
 
I am praying for your mother and also for you.

Hail Mary! Full of Grace…
 
I am adding your mother and you to my Rosary intentions tonight.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is
the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Anathama Sit - Am keeping your mother in my daily prayer intentions. Praying for you and family, too. And entrusting you all to Our Lady’s motherly care:

Jesus, King of Divine Mercy. We trust in You!

We take refuge under thy protection, holy Mother of God; do not reject our prayers for A.Sit’s mother and for the whole family in time of their necessity, but ever protect them from all dangers, o blessed and glorious Virgin. Amen.
 
Still praying for you, my friend. I pray that you get some mcuh needed rest, so you have the strength, both mental and physical, to carry your burdens. I pray you do well on your exams.
Love,
Queenie
 
I pray that God will be with you and your mother and wider family. May He protect and guide you all.
 
Our Lord knows the best. He will help. My sincere prayers for you at this instant. May the Lord release you from this despondency and give you eternal and heavenly peace.
Keep courage. Have faith. Pray often.
Yours in the Lord,
Durgananda
 
Most holy apostle, St. Jude, faithful servant
and friend of Jesus, the Church honors and
invokes you universally, as the patron of
hopeless cases, of things almost despaired
of. Pray for me, I am so helpless and alone.
Make use I implore you, of that particular
privilege given to you, to bring visible and
speedy help where help is almost despaired
of. Come to my assistance in this great need
that I may receive the consolation and
help of heaven in all my necessities,
tribulations, and sufferings, particularly

**for Anathama Sit and his dear mother. **

and that I may praise God with you and all the elect
forever. I promise, O blessed St. Jude, to be
ever mindful of this great favor, to always
honor you as my special and powerful
patron, and to gratefully encourage
devotion to you.

Amen.
 
Anathama_Sit said:
Greetings James_OPL, Bre, Angierabbit2012, Tbcrawford, Justicia et Pax, The Pheonix, Bernadette173, Trishie, Luigi Daniele, Peggy in Burien, Irishmom2, My unabashed purloining friend, Splaghnizomai, Hazcompat, MS_SURVEYOR, Irish Girl 68, The Reginator, Rayne89, Ypat, Usmaedchen, Ceebee, Politica, Petitfluer, and all of those who are reading this thread and praying this intention elsewhere On or Off of Catholic Answers Forum,

Thank you so much for your faithful prayer and your words of support and encouragement.

@Angierabbit2012 - Thank you for placing this intention at the Grotto in Lourdes, France. A family friend emailed me and asked me what was significant with the Grotto and I got a chance to share about Our Lady to this family friend.

@The Reginator - I have started to read this book and it has helped me very much so far. Thank you for taking the time to post it.

To All - Today has been a rough day. The days of no sleep are taking their toll on me as well as facing Examinations. I think I am doing okay with those [exams]. However for the first today I felt myself getting angry with what is going on. I admit this to all of you guys because right now I feel weak and very confused. Thank God for the Sacraments, they are so helpful, even more so at this time. It is hard to get sleep when the calls are coming in from different Time Zones and as well that I cannot sleep because much of my day is spent in prayer and or studying and trying to discern what the decision should be. [NOTE: If you are one of the callers and you are reading this thread, please by means you know what I have said to you, call WHEN you feel you need to, this weakeness shows a lack of virtue on my part. I am saying this as I wish to give a complete snapshot of what is going on.] To say that I feel strong and can handle this would be so much of a farce. I can do nothing, but only with the grace of God.

My mother had extremely low blood pressure today. The doctors have said that there is concern now. And yet in the middle of it all, I still feel at peace, and that is ONLY by the Grace of God. As to my decision for this day I have decided to continue Mom on life support. Man this gets hard, this is a daily decision. The doctors assure me she is in no pain.

I have sent several CD’s of my playing the piano and singing her favourtie Hymms overseas. I have also enclosed a few of the Catholic hymms that she has come to learn to like. I hope that these will comfort her.

I, my family and their friends continue to ask and beg for your prayers. Guys, you have no idea of how much you are all helping in this situation. I am so indebted to CAF and those who have helped me and my family in this hard time.

God Bless You All,
Anathama Sit
[and to the one who knows me as your dear theiving friend.] 🙂
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Anathama Sit
Praying for you and mother when I go to mass today
 
“Father, you do not protect us against catastrophes but in them you come to our aid. It is in the very midst of the tempest and misfortune that a wonderful zone of peace, serenity and joy bursts in us if we dwell in your grace.You do not help us before we have helped ourselves, but when we are at the end of our resources you manifest yourself, and we begin to know that you have been there all the time.”
-Louis Everly

Remember, O most loving virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession was left unaided. Inspired by this confidence, we fly unto you, O virgin of virgins, our mother. To you we come, before you we stand, sinful and sorrowful. O mother of the Word incarnate, despise not our petitions, but in your mercy hear and answer me.
 
Holy Family,
Please give A.S. the wisdom, strength and courage to make wise decisions and to be wise in your ways. And please give A.S.'s mother strength and courage and healing. Amen.
 
Glorious St. Jude with faith in your goodness I ask your help today. As one of Christ’s chosen Apostles, you remain a pillar and foundation of His Church on earth. You are counted we know, among the elders who always stand before God’s throne. From your place of glory we know you do not forget the needs and difficulties of Christ’s little ones here still struggling, like me, on the way home to God. Please intercede for me, gracious St. Jude, and be with me in my daily toil and in all my necessities, especially for Anathama Sit’s Dear Mother. In Christ’s name, I appeal to you again today. Amen.
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death
Amen.
 
Continiuing to pray to St. Jude every night for you, your mom and family.

Our Father, Who art in heaven
Hallowed be Thy Name;
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.

Amen.
 
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