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AnneB
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I am new to this forum and this is my first post. I have an urgent prayer request. The man in my life has an adolescent son who is in the hospital in a coma, since Sat Dec 21. He was upgraded from critical to critical- stable on Sunday. He is in a special children’s hospital in another city. I had not yet met his son nor other members of his family, nor his ex wife. My man prefers me to not be there under those circumstances. He has told me he gets very “closed and focused and needs space” when confronted with a crisis. He has briefly responded to my texts but has not provided any updates regarding his son’s condition since Monday morning. I have inquired and he has not responded. I am very worried about his son and my man as well as his other son and family members. Please pray for speedy and complete healing of his son.
Please also pray for me to know my role in helping him. I feel helpless and wish there was more I can do for them. Prior to this, he had professed his love for me and desire to spend the rest of our lives together, and we had plans for our children and families to meet. I feel so helpless that there isn’t more I can do for him other than pray and give him the space he needs. I have offered to do anything for him that he needs me to do but he has replied with thank you but he doesn’t need anything. He had also told me prior to this that he has never had a partner to help him with anything and has always done everything by himself. And that he has opened up to me more than anyone else in his life, and to be patient with him as he tries to include me more. He is an amazingly giving man to others but does not accept help for himself.
Please pray for his son’s full recovery quickly, for him and his family, and for me to understand God’s role for me in this and to be helpful and supportive without being intrusive. Thank you.
Please also pray for me to know my role in helping him. I feel helpless and wish there was more I can do for them. Prior to this, he had professed his love for me and desire to spend the rest of our lives together, and we had plans for our children and families to meet. I feel so helpless that there isn’t more I can do for him other than pray and give him the space he needs. I have offered to do anything for him that he needs me to do but he has replied with thank you but he doesn’t need anything. He had also told me prior to this that he has never had a partner to help him with anything and has always done everything by himself. And that he has opened up to me more than anyone else in his life, and to be patient with him as he tries to include me more. He is an amazingly giving man to others but does not accept help for himself.
Please pray for his son’s full recovery quickly, for him and his family, and for me to understand God’s role for me in this and to be helpful and supportive without being intrusive. Thank you.

