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Hi I have been wanting to ask these and I decided to do it. These days, I have been wanting to forgive several people. But the thing is that they keep hurting me with their words, tone, and etc. I have tried to forgive what they did to me in the past. but it seems every time they hurt me again, I became angry, sad and harsh to them. How am I supposed to forgive them if they keep on hurting me? I know Jesus taught us to forgive 70 times 7 every time they did the same mistake. But I have tried and it really is hard. How am I supposed to be soft to them when I talk even they use harsh words and tone to me. what am I supposed to do to confront their acts?

I am gonna need your prayers and your advice please:(
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

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This happens to all of us through our lives (including myself of course) and I have learned to distance myself from all people from my past for periods (short or long) in order to heal by Jesus and Our Lady Mary Mother of Jesus through praying The Holy Rosary and other prayers for others and myself (and enemies) as Jesus has taught us through His Testaments and Scriptures.

“Love Thy enemies” (pray for Thy enemies) those who hurt us for Jesus and Our Lady Mary’s Divine Most Holy Loving Intercession to change their ways and open up their Hearts to God.

“For they know not what they are doing” (they are tempted by satan and still learning on their journeys to reach their point in time of remorse to Jesus and we should therefore to have pity on their Souls).

If you turn your back on those who are continually negative or sinning against Jesus and yourself; moving away or distancing yourself ignoring their behaviour and praying for them, Jesus will intervene through His Divine Love and Mercy and look after you.

This has happened to me through my Life on dozens and dozens of occasions; whereby Jesus has encouraged me to remove myself from situations after I have handed over all of my Crosses to Jesus in relation to the situations through The Holy Rosary and other prayers.

Every time Jesus has gotten me through each and every negative situation “Ask and Ye shall receive”!
 
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P.S. Do not forget to mentally bathe all of your Brothers and Sisters in Christ (who are negative in behaviour)with Jesus Sign of The Cross while they are hurting you! Watch the reactions in them when this happens after a few times!

Also keep Jesus Holy Cards in your pockets or bags along with a Green and Brown Scapula and The Miraculous Medal you can pick up online or at a Catholic or Christian Bookshop.

Love and best wishes to you
 
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P.S. Do not forget to mentally bathe all of your Brothers and Sisters in Christ (who are negative in behaviour)with Jesus Sign of The Cross while they are hurting you! Watch the reactions in them when this happens after a few times!

Also keep Jesus Holy Cards in your pockets or bags along with a Green and Brown Scapula and The Miraculous Medal you can pick up online or at a Catholic or Christian Bookshop.

Love and best wishes to you
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Saint Peter, pray for us!
 
I think HolyRosaryChild’s answers were brilliant. I would like to add:

This is very hard: when you look at these people, see Jesus in them. Try to see Jesus. And then question if these relationships are toxic for you, as was suggested. Perhaps it is time to set up some boundaries.
 
Well thanks a lot everyone:)
I still have a question though. If the people always wanted to force their ideas to me and always checking on me whether I did it or not. How can I avoid that? It’s like they are forcing their idea to me. When they come to me, they always have something that makes me want to argue and I always fell into the same trap which is talk to them back harshly. 😦
 
jeffrey_tantowi said:
Well thanks a lot everyone:)
I still have a question though. If the people always wanted to force their ideas to me and always checking on me whether I did it or not. How can I avoid that? It’s like they are forcing their idea to me. When they come to me, they always have something that makes me want to argue and I always fell into the same trap which is talk to them back harshly. 😦
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Some time as noted one must find a relationship toxic and distance themselves from it.

IF you could give an example it might be helpful.

Prayers for you and your situation for it to improve. It must be frustrating indeed.

Mary.
 
I am not sure this has been said, but it would also be helpful for you to pray for those who have hurt you on a daily basis.

Hail, holy Queen, Mother of mercy, hail, our life, our sweetness and our hope. To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve: to thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn then, most gracious Advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us, and after this our exile, show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus, O merciful, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary! Pray for us, O Holy Mother of God, that we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ. Amen.
 
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