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coolduude
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Hi all,
I come in all humility to ask for your prayers on such a topic, especially when other people have situations much worse than my own and require prayers more than my intention in this request does. Nonetheless, please read on and perhaps say a prayer
Maybe you have been following me recently, maybe not. In any case, I’ll provide some background.
My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago over some personal problems of mine. One thing that pushed her towards breaking up were dreams she received after asking for guiding dreams as signs from the Lord. On top of that she experienced bad feelings about our future together. And just recently she has told me that after breaking up she has gained back some weight she lost while we dated and has taken this to mean “she did the right thing”.
It all seems fishy to me. Following dreamsand feelings, then thinking that getting weight back is a positive sign about the break up… It’s suspicious to me.
So I am asking for prayers, even just one, for her so she can clear her head, stop making herself believe all this (which is what she’s doing) and listen to God, not her subconscious or some feelings she may get. To make decisions that big, that are even partially based on such flimsy foundations, is not good.
Please whisper a prayer if you have the time.
(This is taken from another thread I made on this topic for the purpose of more detail:
Thank you in advance,
coolduude
I come in all humility to ask for your prayers on such a topic, especially when other people have situations much worse than my own and require prayers more than my intention in this request does. Nonetheless, please read on and perhaps say a prayer
Maybe you have been following me recently, maybe not. In any case, I’ll provide some background.
My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago over some personal problems of mine. One thing that pushed her towards breaking up were dreams she received after asking for guiding dreams as signs from the Lord. On top of that she experienced bad feelings about our future together. And just recently she has told me that after breaking up she has gained back some weight she lost while we dated and has taken this to mean “she did the right thing”.
It all seems fishy to me. Following dreamsand feelings, then thinking that getting weight back is a positive sign about the break up… It’s suspicious to me.
So I am asking for prayers, even just one, for her so she can clear her head, stop making herself believe all this (which is what she’s doing) and listen to God, not her subconscious or some feelings she may get. To make decisions that big, that are even partially based on such flimsy foundations, is not good.
Please whisper a prayer if you have the time.
(This is taken from another thread I made on this topic for the purpose of more detail:
I find myself in quite a conundrum. My relationship just ended because my girlfriend claimed she asked for dreams as a determining sign as to the long term status for our relationship. And she got dreams, but not good ones. Thus, she thinks it is not His will that we be together, and she broke it off.
)I, however, have been praying quite consistently for months on end to see God’s will for us. In all honesty, I haven’t heard a single negative thing from the Lord. I took that as His approval.
Thank you in advance,
coolduude