Please Pray For My Family & Me

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Oh, where to start? This’ll be a long one.

My family and I have been hit by some really bad luck lately.

It actually all started over a year ago. I had been working at a job that my dad got me into, and later my brother as well. I had been there for nearly a year when I had an accident that severely injured my finger. It was technically still attached by some skin on the sides, but it was basically cut off. Every importany partb was severed. I was blessed with a wonderful doctor and some terrific therapists, and while it will never be back to 100% normal, you wouldn’t be able to tell there had even been an injury unless I pointed it out to you. I thank God wholeheartedly for this, naturally. Had circumstances been just a bit different or I had had a less skilled doctor, it may very well have been amputated. Again, thank God Almighty.

Anyway, I was back to work, albeit very light duty (basically I was one handed), shortly before the start of 2012. Eventually, I was able to return to two-handed work, but my finger stuck staright out (I had no control/motion/etc. in it at all), and this past summer, I went in for a follow-up surgery and more therapy, eventually allowing my finger to ‘go’ again.

I should explain my boss. The man was/is a loose cannon. I don’t know if he has a mental disorder or not, I’m certainly no doctor, and I know he grew up in an abusive home. Nevertheless, I don’t think something is quite ‘right’ with him. I was hired as an apprentice, and the fact I had NO previous experience in this work was clearly understood. It didn’t matter to this man, though. One minute, you could be doing great, and the next minute, you’d be a “lazy kid” or costing them money for not having done something perfectly right away. More than once he made statements regarding younger kids that all they did was “play video games and jack off at the compuer”, despite the fact I had said I only play video games once in awhile and I certainly don’t masturbate, at the computer or elsewhere. He also made many statements to the tune of “all kids should be beaten”. Once he even made a snide remark about Catholics and pedophile priests (I think he was trying to be funny, but it came off as odd, disturbing, and not funny in the least, of course). Simply put, when I had my injury, I was doing five things simultaneously, none of which I had any training for. If it wouldn’t have been for this hurried, cost-cutting measure, I probably never would have been hurt.

While I was healing this past summer following my second surgery, I got an infection, and had to have a 3rd operation, and a home IV for three weeks following a five day stay in the hospital. Workman’s Comp of course paid for all of this, thank God again, because Lord knows we’d be in the poorhouse if it weren’t for that.

Anyway, towards the end of the summer, this boss had really got on my brother for, how I understand it, no reason at all. My brother was terrific at what he did. After my boss laid into him, my brother called up and quit later that night (who could blame him?). A week or two later, I was released for light duty, but was informed that they “had no work” for me (which was almost undoubtedly a lie) and that I was laid-off. I think a combination of my brother quitting (and thus costing them a LOT of money) and the fact I was off for so long (as if I could contradict my doctor, risk another infection, etc.) led to this. I’ve been unemployed since then, and thanks to some seasonal work that would have never lasted as a ‘real’ job, I don’t know if I’ll be receiving anymore unemployment benefits. I don’t think I will. With all the people that work the system, I guess that’s what I get for always being honest, huh?
 
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Flash forward to the early this past November. My brother has found a higher paying job that he truly loves. My dad still worked at the same place, and in order to further save money, the boss had every employee working on the company’s roof, rather than hiring a professional roofer. Much of the equipment at this place is old, rickety, and should be replaced. My dad ended up falling off a ladder, slashing his leg, and immediately being sent to the hospital. If it had been his head, he could have died. To the boss’ credit, he was in the waiting room when my brother and I got there, and it was civil, if not exactly fun. After a fruit basket arrived at home once my dad had been released (after a weekend hospital stay), the extent of their caring ended.

My dad was laid-up for over a month, and during that time, the boss (and his family, who also work there) became increasingly nasty to him on the phone, demanding when he’ll be back, again, as if dad could contradict doctor’s orders. They didn’t care about him, only the money he could make them (this from people that own multiple cars, trucks, and even houses/mansions. Seriously). They even posted his job online, although nothing ever came of it. My dad went back to work a few weeks ago.

Today, they fired him. The boss had told him to so something, and when it wasn’t right (and you can’t argue with the guy, because he’s “always right”), he blamed my dad, screaming and yelling. That led to a confrontation, and after all they had done to him/us, they fired him

As long as this post is, it’s the streamlined version. Never in my life have I been exposed to such greed. People that almost literally worship money, at the expense of human caring. Even after all these months, I’m slackjawwed at it. I’ve gone through periods of depression, and rageful anger. I’ve always been sort of moody, but never, ever like this. If anything good has come out of this, it’s that I now know how I never want to be towards others.

I just don’t get it. What did we do? We worked hard (there were even weekends I worked off the clock, in order to make sure an order would go out on time. Clocking in would surely have led to complaining about my pay). We were injured, needlessly. And then dropped.

I pray that dad will find a new job, and unemployment will help until he does. But my worries over this whole situation is staggering. It’s even becoming harder and harder to find Christian chairty in my heart regarding this matter. I don’t wish hell upon anyone, even these people, but I find it amazing that this boss could walk around and actually quote the Bible, and then treat people like this. I can only hope that he does charitable work, or that there’s some softness in his heart, because based on outside appearances, I just don’t see how this could be Christian behaviour. At all. We are going to talk to a lawyer, because no matter how well it appears, my finger will never be the same, and my dad should have never been injured doing cost-cutting work (that wasn’t in his job description, by the way).

Sorry for going on so long. If nothing else, I had to get some of this off my chest. I humbly ask for your prayers and good intentions, and any advice you may be able to share. I have a feeling even rougher times are ahead. Thanks in advance for anything you can do.

Please God, let this all work out somehow.
 
Dear friend,

Things will not only work out but they’ll also work for good. I say this with conviction and urge you to offer your suffering to Christ as he has and is the answer. Let us also pray for your former employer and his family so that they too may be filled with the love and graces that only God can provide.

Your brother in Christ,

Little Scoty

In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,

Eternal Father, we thank You for the crosses that we bear knowing that each one is an opportunity to grow closer to You. We believe that all things are possible through You and that for those who love You, all things work together for good. We come together now humbly asking that You send Your Holy Spirit to our brothers and sisters in need. We ask that You sustain them along their journey and in their efforts. Holy Spirit, fill them with sufficient grace to bear their crosses with renewed love, patience, forgiveness and humility that brings peace to their lives and glory to Your name.

In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
Amen
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.



Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.



Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.



Saint Michael the Archangel, Defend us in battle. Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray, and do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly Host,
by the Divine Power of God, cast into hell, Satan and all the evil spirits,
who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.

Amen.
 
I entrust you and your father to the loving care of the Blessed Virgin Mary. May she help you both to persevere in faith and in a state of grace and help you both to receive the best medical care. May she shower down graces upon the two of you and help you both to forgive your boss with all your hearts. May she help your boss to repent of his transgressions and move him to want to compensate for what he has done to you and and your father. I pray that you and your father always seek first God’s kingdom and his justice and that you both have all the things you need added unto you. Amen.
 
I humbly ask for your continued prayers and support. I received a piece of news today that leads me to believe things are going to get worse before they get better.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.



Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.



Saint Michael the Archangel, Defend us in battle. Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray, and do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly Host,
by the Divine Power of God, cast into hell, Satan and all the evil spirits,
who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.

Amen.

 
PATER NOSTER,
qui es in caelis,
sanctificetur nomen tuum.
Adveniat regnum tuum.
Fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra.
Panem nostrum quotidianum da nobis hodie,
et dimitte nobis debita nostra
sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris.
Et ne nos inducas in tentationem,
sed libera nos a malo. Amen.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.



Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.



Saint Michael the Archangel, Defend us in battle. Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray, and do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly Host,
by the Divine Power of God, cast into hell, Satan and all the evil spirits,
who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.

Amen.

 
My dad has an interview with a pretty great place tomorrow. Based on qualifications, I’d think he has a better than good chance. I am worried that his former employer will try to cause trouble, however, should they call for references. I don’t know that he will, but it is a concern of mine.

I humbly ask for your prayers and good intentions for his interview tomorrow, and I thank you all for everything you’ve done so far. Of course, I thank God always for everything as well, and pray for His continued blessings.
 
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